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Dating
1 Greg Behrendt on Common Dating Mistakes
relationships
2 You Asked: Are We Too Different to Make It Work?
relationships
3 Good Idea or Bad Idea: Cutting Your Hair After a Breakup
Love and Sex
4 Wise Guide: on change
relationships
5 Do Tell: What One Thing Would You Change About Your Relationship?
community
6 SuperLove: Chat the Planet
Love and Sex
7 You Asked: I'm Feeling Alienated
Sex
8 Do Tell: What One Thing Would You Change About Your Sex Life?
Love and Sex
9 You Asked: I Feel Smothered and Guilty
career
10 You Asked: Should I Follow My Instincts or Listen to My Mom?
Love and Sex
11 You Asked: Should I Risk It?
relationships
12 You Asked: Why Am I Looking Back?
relationships
13 You Asked: Can I Trust That He's Changed?
women
14 Do Tell: You're the President
Advice
15 The How-To Lounge: Being Attracted to the Right Type
Poll
16 Dear Poll: Are You Good With Change?
Love and Sex
17 The How-To Lounge: Quitting Smoking
relationships
18 Handle This: He Doesn't Want Kids
This question comes from a Group Therapy post in our TrèsSugar Community. Add your advice in the comments! Overall, I would say that I have a good life, but it feels like something is missing. I moved to my current town 9 years ago to attend college and I remained here after graduation. I really have enjoyed my time here. I have met some really good people. Since it is a college town though, it Read more
"They say that time changes things, but you actually have to change them yourself." — Andy Warhol Need some more motivation? Check out all of my words that move you. Read more
"There is never a good time to leave, but there is a right time. It is the right time." — Los Angeles Police Chief William J. Bratton, who made the surprising announcement yesterday that he is resigning. I find this quote very poignant. You could apply it to most any job, relationship, or other major life change. It's never easy, but sometimes, you gotta move on. Read more
"If we don’t change, we don’t grow. If we don’t grow, we aren’t really living." — Anatole France Need more motivation? Check out all of my words that move you. Source Read more
Dear Sugar, Me and my boyfriend got into a couple of bad fights last month. Actually it was more like me yelling like a crazy person and him trying to walk away. He says he does that so he won't say something he'll regret, but I take it as him not listening or not caring. We finally talked a week after our last spat, and he told me that he doesn't think it's going to work out because he's tired Read more
Change makes the world go round and it enables us to grow and learn more about ourselves, but change can be terrifying for some. While I appreciate the lessons learned once the change has occurred, as a creature of habit, I have to admit that I don't handle it very well. What about you? Are you good with change? Source Dear Poll: Are You Good With Change? I love change and I Read more
Dear Sugar, I was with my boyfriend for eight years; we were engaged and owned a house together. Things changed over the years, and he became a very negative and controlling boyfriend — we fought all the time. To make a long story short, I broke off the engagement and moved out. We sold the house and went our separate ways. This past Summer, after being apart for nearly two years, we Read more
No one is perfect and we all make mistakes, but when it comes to dating, I see women making the same ones over and over again. I know it's hard to see clearly sometimes when you're smitten with someone, but repeating bad behavior can quickly turn into a vicious cycle. If you're curious to see what author Greg Behrendt thinks the most common dating mistake women make is, just read more Read more
Last weekend I asked you all to share the one thing you'd change about your relationship, and though your responses were all over the board, a few of you alluded to making changes in your sex life. Having a healthy sex life takes a lot of communication in the bedroom, so do tell, if you could change one thing about what happens behind closed doors, what would it be? And don't be shy, I'm sure Read more
Many of you are making personal resolutions for 2009 such as losing weight, exercising more, or quitting smoking. Now is also a great time to think about your significant other and the changes you'd like to make in your relationship. I'm not talking about how you'd like to see your partner change — like you wish he'd stop leaving dirty underwear on the bathroom floor — I'm talking about a Read more
