"How Do I Get Over Him?"


Updated 04/12/12 10:42 AM · Posted by · 3 comments

How Do I Get Over Him?

This question is from a Group Therapy post in our TrèsSugar Community. Add your advice in the comments! My ex and I broke up two months ago. I've tried to get back together with him but he refuses, saying that he doesn't love me anymore. It hurts so much, but every time I feel like I'm close to moving on, he randomly texts me and gets my hopes up. I still love him, but I'm too exhausted to Read more

Looking on the Bright Side: The Benefits of a Breakup


Updated 04/10/12 11:20 AM · Posted by · 0 comments

Benefits of a Breakup

When you're struggling through the toughest, darkest days of a breakup, it can be difficult to see the light at the end of the tunnel. The light is there, though, and while it may not be easy to practice positivity right away, knowing that the split has its blessings can definitely help to boost your mood. Can't quite see the glass as half full? Learn some of the benefits of a breakup to start Read more

11 Signs You're Not Over Your Ex


Updated 04/06/12 4:11 PM · Posted by · 2 comments

Signs You're Not Over Your Ex

An occasional stroll down memory lane is only natural, but if those "Remember when?" moments turn into an everyday, all-consuming affair, it's time to reevaluate your feelings. The difference between wistful and hopelessly devoted can be a confusing gray area, but if you relate to these signs, you're probably not over your ex: His Twitter page is one of your bookmarks. If you're still following Read more

"I'm Having Trouble Working Through a Breakup"


Updated 03/25/12 9:16 AM · Posted by · 10 comments

Breakup Question

This question is from a Group Therapy post in our TrèsSugar Community. Add your advice in the comments! My boyfriend broke up with me recently due to distance and frustration in our relationship. We love each other; I know that. Well, I was pissed at first, but then I started trying to get back with him. On facebook (petty, I know), he would post semi-mean/bashing statuses. I would send him Read more

"I Don't Want to Break Up, but I Don't Know How to Stay Together"


Updated 03/10/12 3:05 AM · Posted by · 3 comments

I Don't Want to Break Up

This question is from a Group Therapy post in our TrèsSugar Community. Add your advice in the comments! My boyfriend and I have had a rocky relationship. When we met, he had just broken up with his long-term girlfriend and I was still in a relationship. I actually carried on a long-distance relationship with him and my LD boyfriend for four months before I finally broke up with my Read more

"Bad Breakup and on the Brink of Losing It"


Updated 03/05/12 7:42 AM · Posted by · 7 comments

Going Through a Bad Breakup

This question is from a Group Therapy post in our TrèsSugar Community. Add your advice in the comments! I broke up with my boyfriend of two years yesterday. It was very peaceful at the time and he admitted that he was in the wrong for everything. We have been long distance and he started to talk to me less and I delayed the inevitable until recently. He was telling me he loved me, talked about Read more

"Ex Won't Take My Pics Down After the Breakup"


Updated 03/02/12 10:39 AM · Posted by · 5 comments

Ex Won't Take Pics Off Internet

This question is from a Group Therapy post in our TrèsSugar Community. Add your advice in the comments! It's been a good 6 months since I broke up with my ex but I couldn't afford to move out until this past December. He had a public pic of us up as a couple which I asked him to take down before I moved out. He finally took it down in January. Now I look on the Internet and he has a business Read more

How to Celebrate the End of a Relationship


Updated 02/15/12 9:33 AM · Posted by TresSugar · 0 comments

What to Do After a Breakup

Breakups can be brutal, but if your relationship comes to an end, why not take action and celebrate a new beginning? Rather than belting out angry Alanis Morissette lyrics or crying over old pictures, try choosing fun, proactive (and emotionally healthier) alternatives. From bonding over guilty pleasures with your girlfriends to clinking glasses with the guys, here are 10 great ways to celebrate Read more

All Your Questions About Breakups Answered


Updated 01/26/12 8:27 AM · Posted by · 0 comments

Breakup Advice

If you're dealing with a breakup-related predicament, chances are another woman has been there before. Readers looking for advice turn to our anonymous Group Therapy forum to pose their questions for other women to answer. If you'd like tips on how to make girlfriends after the end of a longterm relationship, need to figure out if you should leave your boyfriend if he's not ready for marriage, Read more

The 5 Stages of Breakup Grief


Updated 11/28/11 4:05 AM · Posted by · 0 comments

Stages of Breakup Grief

We're happy to present this excerpt from one of our favorite sites, YourTango. "I think we should break-up." "I don't love you anymore." "We aren't right for each other." Breakups can leave the lovelorn rattled for weeks, months and sometimes even years. But there's a light at the end of the tunnel. Grieving a relationship is not unlike grieving a death. It's a healing process. But one day, you Read more