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6 Fun Things to Do in Bed (With Your Clothes On!)

DearSugar — Tue, 30 Dec 2008 06:00:00 -0800

I definitely associate the bed and bedroom with intimacy, but the comfy place where you usually get it on doesn't just have to be about passion and arousal. Here's a list of fun things you can do with your significant other that don't require you to strip down to your birthday suit.

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This or That: His House or Yours?

DearSugar — Fri, 27 Jun 2008 16:00:00 -0700

After a few months of serious dating, you and your boyfriend have moved into the staying-over-nearly-every-night phase. Things have actually been going exceptionally well relationshipwise, though you have noticed a few weird things on his part. Would it be worse if . . .

This: He just doesn’t seem to want you staying at his place, so you only stay at yours? Truth be told, you’ve never even seen the inside of his apartment, which only piques your curiosity (and concern).

Or . . .

That: He practically refuses to stay at your place even for a night? He claims he’s only comfortable at his place, but he doesn't seem to care that it's inconvenient for you.

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Dear Poll: What Side of the Bed Do You Sleep On?

DearSugar — Mon, 09 Jun 2008 16:00:00 -0700

I'm a middle-of-the-bed sleeper - I always have been so when I do share a bed with someone, I'm that girl who hogs the sheets and the mattress! So whether you share your bed with your significant other, your dog or cat, or no one at all, tell me, what side of the bed to you claim as your own?

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Do Tell: What's Your Before Bed Routine?

DearSugar — Fri, 28 Mar 2008 08:00:00 -0700

I like to watch television before bed after I soak in the tub; it’s my way of unwinding and getting to that sleepy place. Now, my roommate in college loved to talk. She could talk for hours before bed; it was her opportunity to process the things that had happened during the day and get everything off her chest. Sometimes she talked for so long, I couldn’t help drifting off. But of course, others like to read, talk on the phone, stick in some headphones, check email, or get physical with their bed buddy. So what about you? What’s your standard bedtime routine?

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Bed Bouncing With Bambi

GiggleSugar — Mon, 26 Nov 2007 03:00:00 -0800

What's the best way to break in a new bed? Not this way. But, as Bambi here demonstrates, it's a good way to break in a new kid sheep.

Dear Poll: When Your Significant Other Is Away, Do You Sleep on the Same Side of the Bed?

DearSugar — Fri, 16 Nov 2007 16:00:00 -0800

When you date someone exclusively, it's inevitable that you claim one side of the bed. But when your man goes out of town, or when you sleep apart, do you stick to your assigned side? I have always been a middle-of-the-bed sleeper, but what about you? Do you stick to your side of the bed, do you linger over to his side, or do you enjoy the luxury of having the entire bed all to yourself and plop right in the middle like me when you sleep alone?

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Group Therapy: He's Disappointing in the Sack

Wed, 24 Oct 2007 03:00:00 -0700

Ladies, I need advice.

I met this cute guy through a friend. We slept together and I have found that he's a...well, a little disappointing if you know what I mean. He doesn't really know how to use what he's got and when we had sex, he pretty much stared at me the whole time and it made me uncomfortable. I felt awkward moaning or acting like I liked it, because his facial expression never changed and his breathing barely changed either, so I couldn't tell if he was being pleasured himself. I'm afraid if I scream and really let go, he'd just stare and make me feel awkward. He can last a long time, but I'm not a fan of long sessions and I don't know if this is sweet or weird, but every time we've had sex, while we're into foreplay, he asked if I "want to do it for real."

Sex has been getting better, but it's still upsetting. This guy is so nice and would be wonderful for me, but the sex is not good! What should I do? Wait it out for a bit, teach him how to be better in bed, date him and deal with it, or accept that this is who he is and end it?

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Men Sleep Well Next to Their Lovers

DearSugar — Thu, 04 Oct 2007 11:00:00 -0700

There is nothing like the feeling of cuddling up to a warm body at night. It makes me feel cozy, safe and deeply relaxed. Spooning has got to be one of my top ten favorite things to do. When I get used to sleeping next to someone, I have a hard time falling asleep when my bed is empty.

Apparently men like sharing a bed too. A recent study discovered that men sleep better when they are lying next to someone they are romantically involved with. On the other hand, women who share a bed slept worse than when they slept alone. This may have to do with the fact that historically, women are lighter sleepers since they were the ones who took care of the babies. Men sleep more deeply and are also more likely to be snorers.

This study may explain why an estimated 23% of American couples sleep separately, which I thought was pretty shocking. I would have assumed that many more couples slept together.

What about you? Do you sleep better alone or when you share your bed with your lover?

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Dear Poll: Who Would You Want to Join You for Breakfast in Bed?

DearSugar — Wed, 08 Aug 2007 09:45:16 -0700

When the sun isn't shining and you've had a late night, sleeping late, snuggling up with a good movie, the paper, a fresh cafe au lait and your favorite breakfast is great and all, but when you're doing it with someone you love - it's unbeatable! Having a lazy morning with the man of your dreams is the best, especially when it means more time between the sheets, so ladies, tell me, what leading man would you want to join you for breakfast in bed?

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The How-To Lounge: Making the PERFECT Bed!

DearSugar — Fri, 03 Aug 2007 10:00:00 -0700

If you're like 70% of other Americans then you are unfortunately not getting enough or adequate sleep. Of course there are the obvious reasons why someone would have a hard time catching their zzz's, but there are ways to at least try to guarantee a good night's sleep.

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Your first order of business should be investing in the right mattress. They are no doubt costly, but well worth it!
If dishing out the dough isn't in your budget right now, buy a nice feather bed (preferably down) to place on top of your old mattress to offer contour and softness
If you are a hot sleeper, a feather bed might not be the right choice for you. Opt for a wool filled mattress pad which absorbs moisture and helps regulate bed temperature. Egg crates and other foam mattress pads are known to trap heat and lose their shape easily so while they are cheaper, they aren't as efficient
I personally feel that the more full the bed, the more cozy it is which is why I strongly recommend buying a feather-down duvet. They are sold in all kinds of weights so go thick if you tend to get cold, and thin if you get hot in your sleep. If you like your bed really, REALLY full, try double stuffing your duvet cover with two inserts!
I am also a firm believer in down pillows - but remember, you should replace them at least every three years. Ten percent of the weight of just a 2 year old pillow is due to dust mites, mold, fungus, droppings and bacteria. EWW! If you have back or neck problems, you might want to try a tempurpedic pillow, but the same replacement rules apply
A rule of thumb with anything made out of feathers - every time you make your bed, shake out your comforter and your pillows to redistribute the feathers evenly
Invest in good linens. Surrounding yourself with soft materials and fluffy pillows will no doubt help you fall asleep easier. Thread count does matter. Aim for at least a 200 count per inch and always buy 100% cotton sheets as they are easier to iron. A good tip if you don't want to iron your sheets is to put them on your bed slightly damp or if you want to indulge, send them to get laundered!
Always keep a throw on or close by your bed. Since it's summer, on hot nights you don't necessarily need all your sheets and blankets, just a light cover will do the trick

Taking a an extra 3 minutes in the morning to make your bed as if you were expecting company will surely make it all the more exciting to get into it come bed time. I hope these tips help, and don't blame me if you can't get out of bed in the morning!

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