Mar 19, 2009 -
Weigh in and tell us if you forgive or not forgive this True Confession.
"I'm having an emotional affair with an old boyfriend. We're not even in the same state, but online dirty talk has done wonders for my self-esteem, and my darling husband is benefiting too.
- 33 Comments
Feb 23, 2009 -
I know I've been terribly selfish, and I deserve the guilt I feel, but I'm struggling with whether or not I should tell my fiancé that I had an affair. I'm 100 percent certain that he will forgive me, so I worry that the only reason I want to tell him is to reduce my own guilt.
He is the kind of person who will insist on knowing every detail of my affair.
- 46 Comments
Dec 10, 2008 -
I had a nine-month affair with a married man when I was 19 years old and he was 29. This was five years ago. After the truth came out, I told everyone I had no idea he was married, but truth was I knew the whole time; I was just too selfish to end it.
- 48 Comments
Oct 13, 2008 -
Dear Sugar,
I have been married for 11 years, and my husband admitted to me three weeks ago that he's been sleeping with a girl that he worked with. I am hurt and very upset and don't know if I can trust him again. I gave him a ultimatum and he chose me, but I have a gut feeling that they are still in contact with each other.
- 23 Comments
Sep 27, 2008 -
DearSugar and Level Headed Heather need your help. Her husband had an affair, got the other woman pregnant, and they are now trying to decide how to tell their 6-year-old daughter about her half-brother. Do you have any advice?
- 24 Comments
Jul 18, 2008 -
Dear Sugar,
Help! I have been with my husband for 13 years and will be married 11 in November. To make this as short as possible, I've lived in a sexless, loveless relationship for 12 years.
- 28 Comments
Jul 08, 2008 -
Recently you figured out that your co-worker, who you’ve always considered a friend, too, is having an adulterous relationship with your boss. She hasn't actually spilled the beans, but you've pieced it together after seeing them at a restaurant arm in arm.
She’s been making references to the new guy she’s been seeing and even asks for your input on certain personal issues.
- 20 Comments
May 21, 2008 -
Dear Sugar,
I have a friend with benefits, and I wasn't supposed to fall in love with him, but I have. He has a fiancée who lives with him, but he says they don't have a good relationship and he wants to end things, so what should I do? Do I move on or hope that someday he will leave her and ask me to be the woman in his life?
- 25 Comments
May 14, 2008 -
An article in The Huffington Post yesterday discusses a survey called Sex and the American Mom, completed by 30,000 people, which concluded that 34 percent of married women with children have had or are currently having an affair. The article examines some of the differences in past years versus the present regarding female satisfaction, male sexual disinterest, and the way society views cheating. It writes:
Affairs used to almost guarantee a trip to divorce court.
- 33 Comments