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Are Phone Calls Now Rude, Intrusive, or Awkward?

A New York Times trend piece over the weekend detailed something you probably already know: voice cell phone usage is on the decline, and data use (especially text messaging) is on the rise.

A New York Times trend piece over the weekend detailed something you probably already know: voice cell phone usage is on the decline, and data use (especially text messaging) is on the rise. While the article points out that teens have stopped calling each other altogether in favor of texting, many adults have given up on the phone call too, even in the workplace.

In fact, the author even goes so far as to call a phone call rude, intrusive, and awkward. And while that seemed ridiculous at first read, after thinking about it, an unsolicited phone call from someone who isn't my mother, sister, or good friend can often seem awkward and ill-timed. In fact, I'm more likely to pop the call to voicemail and then follow up with an email or text if the caller leaves a message.

Gone are the days where we'd trip over each other trying to be the first to answer a phone call (my sister and I were vicious!). Now, when our land line rings at home, my roommate and I sort of stare at each other, and usually say something like, "Did you give anyone this number?"
While traditional telephone service is nearly a relic of the past, services like Google Voice and even FaceTime have helped voice service evolve to meet the demands of a more connected audience, it rarely seems to be the best option for contacting someone. Do you feel similarly, or are you still a fan of the phone call?

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Make Free Calls, Texts to Japan Thanks to AT&T and Verizon

As the aftermath of last week's horrific earthquake and tsunami continues to unfold in Japan, people all over the globe are reaching out to help citizens in the East, whether it's with money, time, or commodities.

As the aftermath of last week's horrific earthquake and tsunami continues to unfold in Japan, people all over the globe are reaching out to help citizens in the East, whether it's with money, time, or commodities.

Currently, you can donate money via iTunes and Facebook to Red Cross relief efforts, and now AT&T and Verizon are joining forces by offering US residents free calls and texts to Japan until April.

Get the lowdown on each carrier after the break.

dating and technology

Dear Poll: How Do You Communicate With Your Love Interest?

In the modern world of technology, dating has become increasingly more complicated.

In the modern world of technology, dating has become increasingly more complicated. And with so many ways to communicate with each other, it feels like good old-fashioned phone calls come few and far between. I'm a big proponent of face time while getting to know a love interest (there's something to be said about physical interaction), but tell me, what method of communication do you and your crush tend to use in the beginning stages of a blossoming relationship?

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The How-To Lounge: Avoiding the Phone Obsession

It wasn't all that long ago when people used to sit by the phone waiting for a call.

It wasn't all that long ago when people used to sit by the phone waiting for a call. But just because times have changed and we can now drag our phone around with us everywhere we go, it doesn't mean that we've stopped the obsessive when-will-they-call behavior. In fact, having access to our phones every minute of every day only makes us more likely to worry about when the darn thing will ring! To work on avoiding this obsessive phone behavior, just read more

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The How-To Lounge: Calling Someone You Don't Know

Whether it’s for work or personal reasons, calling someone you don’t know can be very intimidating.

Whether it’s for work or personal reasons, calling someone you don’t know can be very intimidating. For whatever reason — perhaps because all of the normal body-language clues are removed — the phone seems to make even the most mundane conversations a little more awkward and uncomfortable. Fortunately, getting past the fear of the phone just takes some practice, so to learn some tips for calling someone new, read more

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Do Tell: What's Your Criteria For Giving Out Your Number?

When it comes to passing out the digits, women are picky, and rightly so.

When it comes to passing out the digits, women are picky, and rightly so. With some men, you can tell right off the bat that they aren’t good candidates while others appear innocent enough. Until a week later when they’ve called you four times and texted you twice — their promise to not give up until you go out with them seems more creepy than cute. We don't need more than one of those experiences to learn our lesson!

And yet, every once and a while, something clicks and we recite our actual numbers to a guy we barely know while he types it in his cell phone. So please ladies, do tell, what makes it click for you? What’s your criteria for handing out your number to a new guy?

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Dear Poll: Do You Screen?

It's Tuesday — four days after you hit the town with your girlfriends and gave out your number to a few potential suitors.

It's Tuesday — four days after you hit the town with your girlfriends and gave out your number to a few potential suitors. They've passed the three-day rule so your phone is bound to start ringing. But when it does, and you don't recognize the number, will you answer it or send the call straight to voicemail? I never answer calls I don't know, especially the unidentified ones, but I have many friends that answer their phone no matter what. Of course no way is better than the other, but ladies, what I want to know is, do you screen your calls or answer numbers that you don't recognize?

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Dear Poll: Are You a Drunk Dialer?

Did you do any drunk dialing this weekend?

Did you do any drunk dialing this weekend? I am not one who reaches for the phone after a few too many cocktails, but I have many friends who need the liquid courage to call the guys they like or make the inevitable booty call to their crushes.

When you're intoxicated, you seem to have a certain level of fearlessness that can feel good in the moment but humiliating the next morning, especially after you check your call log! So ladies, I know we have all done stupid things under the influence, but what I want to know is,

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