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Before the Birds and Bees Talk, Have the Telephone Talk

The number of kids with cell phones is on the rise; earlier this year a study said that 20 percent of kids aged 6 to 11 have one.

The number of kids with cell phones is on the rise; earlier this year a study said that 20 percent of kids aged 6 to 11 have one. That may have some consequences, including the inability to operate a landline! In yesterday's Ask Amy advice column, a middle school secretary wrote in to remind parents to teach their kids how to use that more old-school way of placing a call. The problem? If there's an emergency where cell phone networks are down, or cell phones have no reception, children may not be able to get the help they need. The secretary noted that her school's kids didn't know to pick up the phone receiver, dial one before a long-distance area code, or even to listen for a dial tone. Perhaps most importantly, the children also had not remembered their parents' digits, since they are programmed into their cell phones.

The columnist advised parents to add the "Landline Talk" to the list of chats they need to have with their kids, like the traditional sex, drugs, and predator lessons. Do your kids remember your home or cell phone numbers, and do you teach them how to use a landline?


healthy living

The Soothing Power of a Mother's Voice

We have long known that a loving touch can soothe a stressed out child, but recent research found that hearing a mother's voice over the phone can have almost the same effect.

We have long known that a loving touch can soothe a stressed out child, but recent research found that hearing a mother's voice over the phone can have almost the same effect. A recent study found that after a stressful episode the feel good brain chemical oxytocin rose and stress hormone cortisol fell in almost equal amounts in both girls who were physically comforted by their mothers and girls who were comforted by their mothers over the phone. Nice to know that loving words can soothe almost as much as a hug. The girls involved in the study were all under 12 years of age and had yet to enter the volatile teenage years when mother-daughter relationships can become emotionally fraught. Next time you feel stressed, dial the phone to find comfort in a loving voice. If calling your mother is anxiety producing, skip that call and dial a friend. Who is on your emotional support speed dial list?

dating and technology

Tech Dating 101: Using Your Phone While on a Date

Sometimes we all need a little help navigating the choppy waters of dating when tech gets tossed into the mix, which is why geeksugar and I have teamed up for another installment of Tech Dating 101.

Sometimes we all need a little help navigating the choppy waters of dating when tech gets tossed into the mix, which is why geeksugar and I have teamed up for another installment of Tech Dating 101. Last week, we talked about canceling a date via text, and this week we're discussing whether or not texting and making calls during your date is acceptable dinner etiquette.

Can I text and make phone calls during a date without being rude?

To see DearSugar's answer, read more

relationships

Dear Poll: Do You Always Pick Up When Your Significant Other Calls?

Whether you're a phone person or not, there are usually certain calls you take no matter what.



Whether you're a phone person or not, there are usually certain calls you take no matter what. Maybe it's your mom, your sister, or your best friend, but I'm curious to know how many of you always pick up when it's your significant other calling!

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Love and Sex

Relationship Protocol: Are You Always in Touch?

Even if they're living under the same roof or have plans to meet up after work, I know many couples that still touch base multiple times throughout the day.

Even if they're living under the same roof or have plans to meet up after work, I know many couples that still touch base multiple times throughout the day. I think it's really sweet, but communication overload can be irritating for friends and co-workers when the incessant phone calls become disruptive. When I'm in a relationship, I like to share all the excitement of my day with him in person, but what about you? Are you and your significant other in touch throughout the day? And if so, how often do you typically talk?

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Dear Poll: Are You Good at Returning Phone Calls?

Many of you are not a fan of the phone unless it’s to talk to someone who you couldn’t otherwise.

Many of you are not a fan of the phone unless it’s to talk to someone who you couldn’t otherwise. Even though it’s less personal, I agree that something about talking on the phone can seem a bit intimidating and awkward. Unfortunately, you really can’t escape it, especially since other people may not feel the same way you do. Since I know punctuality and follow-through matter to all of you, tell me, are you good about calling someone back?

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dating and technology

Do Tell: Why Didn't He Call?

Last night I was catching up with a girlfriend and our conversation went straight to her date from the previous week.

Last night I was catching up with a girlfriend and our conversation went straight to her date from the previous week. They went out on Thursday night, had a great time, and kissed goodnight, but as of Monday, she still hadn't heard from him. After lamenting for a while, the inevitable question was asked: why didn't he call? Not only do I get asked this time and time again, but it's a simple question I ask my friends, too. Yet every time we all come up short. Who knows why he didn't call — it could be because he's busy or simply because he's not interested, but either way, no answer is good enough therefore the question remains. Does this pattern sound familiar? It's one of the most frustrating questions to ask and to answer, but do tell, do you do it anyway?

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You Asked: He Hasn't Called!

Dear Sugar, I have been hanging out with this guy for over seven months — I am 28 and he is 37.

Dear Sugar,

I have been hanging out with this guy for over seven months — I am 28 and he is 37. We normally talk every day and see each other twice a week. I recently got a divorce and he was hurt very badly in a past relationship so neither one of us are looking for anything too serious, although we have had sex which I guess developed some type of closeness.

Last Sunday we spoke briefly and his phone dropped the call. When he called me back, I couldn't talk (I was on the way to the airport) and to make a long story short, we haven't talked since. He's mentioned to me that when he has a lot of his mind, he doesn't like being bothered by anybody so I wasn't sure if this was one of those times or if he is just blowing me off. It's been over a week so what gives? Has he lost interest? Is he mad at me? Should I call him or should I just forget about him altogether? —Neglected Natasha

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Love and Sex

Handle This: Your Friend Harassed Your Ex

After a terrible break-up, one that lasted months and involved a lot of mixed signals from your ex, your friends decide to take you out to celebrate your newly single status.

After a terrible break-up, one that lasted months and involved a lot of mixed signals from your ex, your friends decide to take you out to celebrate your newly single status. In your less than sober state, you end up spilling the grittiest details to your friends about all the not-so-nice things he said and did. Before you know it, one of your girlfriends has made off with your cell phone to give your ex a piece of her mind.

By the time you've found her, it's too late, the damage is already done — she's no longer talking and you gather it wasn't a friendly good-bye. It's not that your ex doesn't deserve a tongue lashing, but you couldn't think of a more negative way for it to reflect on you. You're furious with your friend. You don't know whether to yell at her and call your ex up to apologize or just leave it be, so ladies, tell me, how would you handle this?

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Mom-Me Time: Phone Your Friends

A mom can catch a break without enlisting the help of her partner or a babysitter — all she needs is the phone.

A mom can catch a break without enlisting the help of her partner or a babysitter — all she needs is the phone. Whether you miss your friends or crave adult conversation, you can have both in the comfort of a pair of sweats on your couch.

Blow off the dishes and let the laundry pile up. Once your children are sound asleep, grab a glass of wine and dial a friend's digits for some uninterrupted conversation. Catching up is a great way to reconnect with those you care about and if you have a cell phone plan with free nights it may not cost you a dime!

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