We're unashamed to admit we have a serious obsession with the '90s, especially when it comes to all the things that make us nostalgic about being a girl back in the decade of jellies, neon, and Lisa Frank. If you and your friends are anything like us, you'd die over a '90s-themed party. So with wedding season underway, we've come up with creative ideas for throwing the most bomb.com bachelorette party or bridal shower we could dream up, complete with the girlie trinkets, rad fashion, and phat pop culture icons of the 1990s. And a lot of these ideas would work for a birthday bash as well! Now get ready to party like it's 1999!
Give Your Bachelorette Party Fifty Shades of Flair
Bachelorette parties are known to get a little wild, and celebrating the last single hurrah for a bride-to-be naturally lends itself to a sexy theme. So it's no surprise that E.L. James's erotic trilogy Fifty Shades of Grey makes the perfect bach-party inspiration. Handcuffs, masks, whips, and steamy games are just a few of the elements that, used creatively, will have partygoers giggling while celebrating the soon-to-be Mrs. (Christian Grey). Nipple-clamp cookies, anyone? Click on for more Fifty Shades of Grey bachelorette-party ideas!
50 Bridal Shower Theme Ideas
Wedding season brings the ultimate girl-bonding events: bridal showers and bachelorette parties. And depending on if you're the bride-to-be, a bridesmaid, the sister of the bride, or just the party planner in your group of girlfriends, you may be brainstorming bridal party theme ideas this season. Well, we're here to help! We've scoured our favorite big-day blogs for 50 of the most fun, creative, and pretty party themes, perfect for a bridal shower or bachelorette party. Check them out now!
Throw a Bikini Beach Bridal Bash
We were saddened yesterday with the news that Annette Funicello had passed away. The famous Mouseketeer grew up to be the teen queen of the beach party movies of the '60s like Beach Party, Bikini Beach, and Beach Blanket Bingo. The series of films were inspired by the 1959 film Gidget about a young surfer girl, which had several sequels and was adapted into the '60s TV show starring Sally Field.
These swingin' '60s films and shows featured lots of bikinis, beach locales, musical numbers, and girlie retro style — so we couldn't think of a better bridal shower theme than one inspired by the beach party trend of the era. Think Tiki bars, pool lounging, and Mad Men-esque attire. Check out retro beach inspiration for your bridal shower, bachelorette party, or just Summer soiree now!
Giddyap, Girl! How to Throw a Honky-Tonk Bridal Shower
Lasso up your pals and pull on your cowboy boots, we've got all the inspiration you need to throw a bridal shower with country and western flair. If this is your first rodeo as a bride-to-be or a maid-of-honor planning a bridal shower (or bachelorette party), have no fear, we've got you covered from the barn-worthy activities to the country-chic decor and dress code. And don't forget to set the mood with these country wedding songs. Now let's have a little less talk and get this boot-scootin'-boogie bridal shower going!
What to Expect When Your Child Is in a Wedding
It's an honor for your child to be part of a loved one's wedding, but with that special position comes a bit of responsibility. With wedding season in full force, we're outlining some of the must-know duties for flower girls and ring bearers. Will your little one be walking down the aisle? Here are some tips and details to guide you through the experience:
Parties
Between engagement parties and bridal showers and bridal party luncheons, the number of prewedding events can be high. If your child is invited to one of the get-togethers, here are a couple tips to keep in mind:
- Consider the party an opportunity for your little one to establish relationships with the rest of the bridal party. You may not be present for all the day-of festivities, so it's important that your child feels comfortable with the others.
- Get to know the maid of honor or another person who's close to the bride so that you have another contact to reach when the bride is busy — both before and during the wedding day.
Attire
Whether your child is the flower girl or the ring bearer, the wedding attire is definitely something you should discuss early on. You want your little one's style to fit in with the rest of the bridal party, but it's just as important to find a comfortable option, too. Keep these specifics in mind:
- The bride likely has a vision for the entire bridal party, so reach out ahead of time to see what she prefers. Plus, since it's probably a one-time wear, be open and honest about your budget from the get-go.
- Depending on your child's age, you may want to wait until a month or so before the wedding to buy their outfit. Not only will you ensure a better fit, but you'll also have a chance to adjust the pieces as necessary.
- Shoes should be purchased in advance so that your little one can break them in and be extra comfortable for the big day.
Read on for more bridal party expectations.
10 DIYs to Do With Your Bridesmaids
Wedding expert Abby Larson, editor and founder of Style Me Pretty, knows the ins and outs of what makes a fabulous big day. And she's sharing her expertise with us this wedding season with a series of articles on tips and tricks for tying the knot. First, she helped us out with advice on recycling your wedding, and then last week she gave ideas for wedding favors that give back. Now Abby shares projects to get your bridesmaids in on the DIY fun minus the stress. "Tedious tasks give being a bridesmaid a bad rap, so I thought of a few ways to make those to-dos a bit more fabulous," says Abby. "Think bubbly, PJs, and lots of inside jokes — with a few DIYs that will dazzle on the side." Check out her bonding project ideas now!
Photo by Eric Laurits and more courtesy of Style Me Pretty
Bridal Friday Link Time: Flower Power Bachelorette Party Ideas
- Feel Spring-y with this Mad Men-esque inspiration shoot — 100 Layer Cake
- A wedding shoot inspired by Downton Abbey — Style Me Pretty
- 5 marriage equality-themed cocktails — Equally Wed
- Check out a chic, modern wedding with pink ombre details — Green Wedding Shoes
- Watch this woman propose to her girlfriend at a hockey game! — Glamour
- A creative way to make an entrance at an outdoor wedding — The Bride's Guide
- How to throw a barn wedding — The Wedding Chicks
- See the world's first all-diamond ring! — Huffington Post
- A comic book-inspired wedding — GeekSugar

- Feel Spring-y with this Mad Men-esque inspiration shoot — 100 Layer Cake
- A wedding shoot inspired by Downton Abbey — Style Me Pretty
- 5 marriage equality-themed cocktails — Equally Wed
- Check out a chic, modern wedding with pink ombre details — Green Wedding Shoes
- Watch this woman propose to her girlfriend at a hockey game! — Glamour
- A creative way to make an entrance at an outdoor wedding — The Bride's Guide
- How to throw a barn wedding — The Wedding Chicks
- See the world's first all-diamond ring! — Huffington Post
- A comic book-inspired wedding — GeekSugar
Hunger Games Ideas For Your Wedding, Bachelorette Party, and Bridal Shower
The Hunger Games movie is out this Friday, and for those of you who can't get enough of the Suzanne Collins book trilogy, we've got a treat for you as we wait for the first film's release. Whether you're a bride-to-be, a maid of honor, or just a party planner, we've come up with some creative and fun ways to incorporate The Hunger Games in your wedding celebrations. The book series may be dark, but it is filled with romance. And for hardcore fans of the series, there's always a way to add just a touch of the series and its themes in your big day and especially the parties leading up to it. Be inspired by Katniss, Peeta, mockingjays, and more with these wedding and bridal party ideas. Check out the big day inspiration now, and may the odds be ever in your favor!
Photos by Courtney Clarke Photography, Ashley Photographer, and Meghan Christine Photography via The Wedding Chicks and Green Wedding Shoes
Cool Idea: Skip the Bridal Veil and Add It to Your Decor Instead
Some brides are major veil girls, while others choose to opt out of this traditional bridal headpiece. If you're not the type of bride who's interested in wearing a long, cascading bridal veil as part of her bridal ensemble, why not make it part of the decor instead?

At a Camarillo ranch wedding, the bride decided to opt out of a traditional veil and show off her gorgeous mahogany curls instead. But the allure of the veil wasn't lost on her — she added cascading veil-like tulle behind her dessert table instead. I love the effect — it softens the rustic barn and adds romance.
Here are a few more ideas for adding tulle to your wedding's decor.
- Wind it around a trellis or arbor for a dramatic entrance to your wedding.
- Use it as a table runner for your reception.
- Tie it in bows around the backs of chairs at your ceremony.
- Braid ribbon into lengths of tulle and use it as an alternative to bunting.
- Create a transparent tented effect when you hang it from the ceiling.
Did you use tulle in your wedding's decor? Tell me about your technique in the comments!






