adventure

budget tips

Cheap Thrills That Actually Satisfy

Cheap thrills sometimes get a bad rap, but there are plenty of budget-friendly activities that would satisfy any adrenaline junkie's needs.

Cheap thrills sometimes get a bad rap, but there are plenty of budget-friendly activities that would satisfy any adrenaline junkie's needs. Nearly each one has different levels, whether you're a beginner or a pro, and you can try most of them out at a local gym, at the club, or in the great outdoors. Have a look, and get your rush on!

  • Paintball: Get your competitive juices flowing by hitting people with paint and getting them out. Costs vary depending on the quality of the paint and how many balls you order, so if it's your first time trying out the sport, keep things simple.
  • Improv: Getting up in front of large groups is a big fear-inducer for many people. Feel the rush by taking an improv class at a local comedy club. Who knows? You might discover a hidden talent.
  • Mountain biking: Riding a bike may sound like a fun way to exercise, but mountain biking is no easy feat. Off-roading onto tough terrain requires special mountain bikes that you should rent instead of spending upward of $500 on your own. If you have adrenaline junkie friends who have bikes you can borrow, all the better.
  • Ropes course: Get transported back to gym class and tackle a local ropes course. Some gyms and outdoor facilities offer access for reasonable prices, but you can always create your own by jumping over orange cones and charging up the stairs.
  • Big-Kid Slides: You don't have to pay to go to an amusement park for heart-pounding rides. Outdoor parks and even malls have giant slides that twist and turn and are just as fun for adults.
  • Rock Climbing: There's nothing like feeling accomplished after completing a challenging task, and rock climbing is a big challenge. Save by taking a group instead of private lessons for the outdoor adventure. One of the cheapest ways to rock climb, however, is to go to an indoor climbing gym and pay for a day pass.
  • Surfing: Like several other outdoor activities, the good thing about surfing is that mother nature provides much of what you need. Once the waves are up, all that's left to rent is a surfboard and a wetsuit. Try to get a friend, or even a friend of a friend, to give you lessons. If all else fails, you can always try it yourself using tips from YouTube.
  • Sledding: One of the most inexpensive and fun activities is playing in the snow. Grab a plastic sled (or something comparable), take a deep breath, and head down the hill!

Do you have any favorites?

summer

Summer Reading: Blind Descent

The next time you're at the library, check out Blind Descent ($17) by James Tabor — it's the kind of book you can't put down.

The next time you're at the library, check out Blind Descent ($17) by James Tabor — it's the kind of book you can't put down. Exploring the fascinating subject of cave diving — aka supercave exploration — Tabor chronicles the insane obsession with this field. The main focus of Blind Descent is on two men — Bill Stone and Alexander Klimchouk. Both men are experts in their field, but opposites in temperament and style. And though their paths are different, they both have the same end goal: find the deepest cave on Earth. Stone's journey leads him to the deadly Cheve Cave in southern Mexico, and Klimchouk takes on Krubera, a glacial cave (think: freezing) in the Republic of Georgia.

To find out why Blind Descent makes Jules Verne's Journey to the Center of the Earth look like child's play, read more

party planning

Do You Experiment With New Recipes at Dinner Parties?

There are some party planning professionals who believe you should never try a new recipe when hosting a party.

There are some party planning professionals who believe you should never try a new recipe when hosting a party. I'm not one of those party planners. I think it's exciting and fun to experiment with a new dish at a party. If it's not great, I don't feel bad, I simply explain to my guests that it was a test. Reader AmberHoney agrees; yesterday when describing a recent dinner party menu, she said, "Always new recipes. Our friends are all foodies and we love experimenting so it's never the same thing twice." Exactly my sentiments, Amber! How do you feel about the matter?

Love It or Leave It

Love It or Leave It: Iceberg Love Bumper

If you're adventurous in the bedroom, I'm sure you have no hesitation when it comes trying every sexual position, toy, or personal lubricant out there.

If you're adventurous in the bedroom, I'm sure you have no hesitation when it comes trying every sexual position, toy, or personal lubricant out there. Experimenting under the sheets can lead to mind-blowing orgasms, so if you have the attitude that you'll try anything once, check out the Iceberg Love Bumper ($85). You place it under your bum and it's supposed to help you achieve the perfect angle. PS: The cover unzips so it can be thrown in the wash.

Is this something you'd splurge on if it helped make your intimate times more pleasurable? Or is this just too seedy for your taste?

Sex

Dear Poll: Who Is More Adventurous in the Bedroom?

Regardless of who has the stronger sex drive, hearing who's more adventurous in the bedroom is sometimes what's most interesting to learn about a couple.

Regardless of who has the stronger sex drive, hearing who's more adventurous in the bedroom is sometimes what's most interesting to learn about a couple. Being experimental doesn't necessarily mean making a sex tape, but it could mean switching up your positions, perhaps doing a little role playing, or even using sex toys with your partner. So when it comes to your relationship, tell me, who is more apt to try new things behind closed doors — or anywhere for that matter?

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dating and technology

The How-To Lounge: New Avenues to Meet People

Meeting new guys is not all that hard — just head out to your local pub for a drink and smile a lot!

Meeting new guys is not all that hard — just head out to your local pub for a drink and smile a lot! But meeting quality people who you’d actually want to interact with sober and introduce to your friends is another matter entirely. And while throwing out suggestions like going to a bar or starting up conversations at your gym can be helpful for some, most of us have been there and done that. In an attempt to broaden our horizons, I’ve tried to think outside the dating box. To see my new ideas, just read more

Advice

Fun Ways to Get Together With the Girls

Sometimes it seems like we spend so much time focusing on new ways to go on a date or enjoy time with our guy that we forget there's an entire world of ideas for spending time with just our girlfriends.

Sometimes it seems like we spend so much time focusing on new ways to go on a date or enjoy time with our guy that we forget there's an entire world of ideas for spending time with just our girlfriends. So in support of hanging with your ladies, I've come up with some ideas to make for a memorable time. But feel free to weigh in with other ideas of your own!

  • Host a good old-fashioned cocktail party with a signature drink and appetizers. Spice it up by asking your friends to each bring their favorite dessert. When you're not munching on finger foods, you can indulge your sweet tooth.
  • Get active. Slip on your tennis shoes and hit the courts, or pick a safe trail in your town and go for a hike. If guys can have pick-up football games, why can't girls have impromptu sunset strolls?
  • Take turns giving dinner parties and trading recipes. It's a fun way to bond and learn something new!
  • To see my other ideas, just read more

dating and technology

Rule #3 For Jump-Starting Your Summer Fun

Rule Number 3 Take advantage of all this season has to offer and spice up your dating routine.

Rule Number 3

Take advantage of all this season has to offer and spice up your dating routine. While Winter might be about holing yourself up inside with bundles of blankets and a hearty meal, Summer is all about adventure and pleasure. I’ve got a few ideas just perfect for some Summer romance. To see them, and weigh in with your own, read more

Wedding

What Do You Want to Do Before Tying the Knot?

We are fast approaching wedding season, but prior to tying the knot, aren't there just a few things you want to do before entering into wedded bliss?

We are fast approaching wedding season, but prior to tying the knot, aren't there just a few things you want to do before entering into wedded bliss? If you need ideas, check out this entertaining Cosmo article on MSN that offers up 17 of them! Check out the list:

  1. Date a guy who's totally wrong for you just because he has amazing abs.
  2. Collect at least six country stamps on your passport, including one from a place that until recently you didn't even know existed.
  3. Embrace feminine decor.
  4. Take advantage of the whole bed.
  5. Spend an embarrassing amount of money on a designer bag you love or heels that make you feel incredibly sexy.
  6. Learn how to change a tire and work a drill.
  7. Slip one of those furry covers on the toilet.

Want to see more? Then read more

Poll

Dear Poll: Will You Try Anything Once?

When it comes to food, some of us are picky eaters while others are willing to try anything once.


When it comes to food, some of us are picky eaters while others are willing to try anything once. I often wonder if the same sentiment holds true in our personal lives as well. Though I’m a woman who believes you shouldn’t knock something until you’ve given it a go, I’m also not willing to try anything just for the sake of trying it. Quail eggs, skydiving, and dating extreme-sports enthusiasts really aren’t my things, and I don’t need to try them all to know that. Or maybe I’m actually being close minded. I guess I’m not a try-anything-once kind of gal but what about you? Will you try anything once?

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