DearSugar and Willing to Wait Whitley need your help.
DearSugar and Willing to Wait Whitley need your help. She and her boyfriend broke up because he moved away, but when he recently came back for a visit, it seemed as though nothing changed. They still love each other, so should she wait for him to see if it could possibly work out later down the road, or should she move on with her life?
My boyfriend of two years broke up with me a month ago because he moved to New York to go to optometry school and I live in Vancouver. We knew the long distance would be tough, but he realized that he wasn't able to hold down a relationship with his busy life in a new city. I'm having such a hard time getting over him. It would have been easier if we had broken up because we didn't love each other anymore or if the feelings had changed between us, but we broke up simply because of the circumstance we were in.
He returned to Vancouver this week and we hung out twice. Each time we saw each other, it was like nothing had happened and we were still together. There was a ton of physical contact and we exchanged the same smiles; we even ended up kissing. He says he still loves me and I feel the same. I asked him whether there was a chance of us getting back together and he responded saying, "We may if our paths cross again in the future."
Now I don't know what to do. I'm just confused. We still love each other but we can't be together at the moment. Should I just move on with my life, or should I wait for him since there might be a possibility of us getting back together? — Willing to Wait Whitley