Superstition

career

Do You Believe People Make Their Own Luck?

Some people just seem to have everything fall into their lap.

Some people just seem to have everything fall into their lap. Perhaps they're lucky, or maybe they just made smart decisions. Richard Wiseman, a famous psychologist from the UK, argues that people actually create their own luck. The difference between unlucky and fortunate people, he says, is that lucky people are open to possibility and are observant.

"We are traditionally taught to be really focused, to be really driven, to try really hard at tasks. But in the real world, you've got opportunities all around you. And if you're driven in one direction, you're not going to spot the others. It's about getting people to have various game plans running in their heads," Wiseman says.

Maybe the girl who seems to have everything — dream job, life, friends, and love — was smart about positioning herself for the "luck" to happen. What's your take on this? Do you think people make their own luck?

Wedding

An April Wedding: Is It Good or Bad Luck For William and Kate?

The royal couple has set their wedding date for April 29 in London's Westminster Abbey.

The royal couple has set their wedding date for April 29 in London's Westminster Abbey. While I'm sure lots of factors went into choosing the date, probably few had anything to do with the superstitions our ancestors loved so much. But for fun, let's look at what marrying in April says about a marriage.

A wedding rampage at the end of April is actually nothing new to British vicars, because of an old saying that dates back to pagan times. "Marry in the month of May, and you'll rue the day," but "Marry in April when you can, joy for maiden and for a man."

Despite May being a merry old month, it's an ominous time to tie the knot. Associated with the pagan festival of Beltane, which was basically one big orgy, and the Roman Feast of the Dead and Festival of the Goddess of Chastity, nothing about May and marriage mix. Superstitions ran high until the 19th century, when it's rumored Queen Victoria banned her children from marrying in the unlucky month.

I tried to find a happy couple who married on April 29 for Kate and Will to admire, but a quick search returned only one famous couple: Adolf Hitler and Eva Braun. I guess April does have its showers!

News

Is a Red Thong the Secret to the Giants' Baseball Success?

Underneath his uniform, Giants first baseman Aubrey Huff has a secret weapon: his wife's thong.

Underneath his uniform, Giants first baseman Aubrey Huff has a secret weapon: his wife's thong. Dubbed the "rally thong," Huff has been wearing the red piece of lingerie since Aug. 30 as a good luck charm. Since then, the Giants have been on a roll, winning game one of the World Series last night.

Huff decided to wear the thong when the Giants needed a miracle (i.e. needed to win 20 of their last 30 games to make the playoffs). After putting the thong on in the locker room he said: "Boys, this is going to get us to 20-10." The company behind the thong also sees a winning opportunity. They've sent the slugger boxes filled with more thongs to distribute.

Huff is a good spokesperson too, explaining that "over time, it's actually gotten pretty comfortable." But the more important question is: does it get washed after every game?

career

I'm Asking: Do You Have a Lucky Charm For Your Career?

Back when I was at school, I used to bring a lucky charm with me to exams.

Back when I was at school, I used to bring a lucky charm with me to exams. It's a little "lucky cat" keychain that I carry around to important events. Over the years, it has evolved from a magical school tool to being part of my job-hunting arsenal, and now it is my secret to big wins at work (or so I'd like to think).

You may scoff at my superstitious nature, but a recent Danish study revealed that people perform better when they are using lucky charms, according to Scientific American. Believing in these superstitions will lead to greater confidence in their ability to perform.

I'm wondering, how many of you use lucky charms to help with your career? And if you're a big fan of them, what kind of charms do you use?

Halloween

Five Spooky Myths For Halloween

Night comes early, leaves fall from trees, and Halloween is right around the corner.
Scary Halloween Myths

Night comes early, leaves fall from trees, and Halloween is right around the corner. It's the perfect setting for spooky myths that you may have believed as a child. Take a look at these five superstitions and let us know if you still believe!

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Are You Superstitious?

If you're a superstitious person, you might not want to get your hair cut today.

If you're a superstitious person, you might not want to get your hair cut today. Legend has it that if you cut your hair on Friday the 13th someone in your family will die. Want more warnings? Make sure you don't let a funeral pass you by today or you'll be next, and try not to go into labor, as a child born on Friday the 13th is said to be unlucky for life.

But like most (all?) superstitions, Friday the 13th's unlucky history is based on fiction. The 1907 novel Friday the Thirteenth about an evil businessman who attempted to sabotage the stock market on the unluckiest day of the year is responsible for today's bad rap. Are you still nervous?

Wedding

Do Tell: Is It Bad Luck to Try on Someone's Ring?

It's been said that trying someone's engagement ring on your left ring finger is bad luck for single women.

It's been said that trying someone's engagement ring on your left ring finger is bad luck for single women. Why? I'm not sure, but even though I know it's just an old wives tale, it's one superstition that I don't want to test! Since I love to try on engagement rings, I always slip them on my right hand, just in case. But what about you? Ladies, do tell, when you try on your a friend's engagement ring, do you put it on your right or left hand?

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News

Chinese Blame Government For Ignoring Earthquake Omens

Prior to the devastating earthquake in China, ponds drained, cows threw themselves about, and toads swarmed the streets — warning the people of the oncoming natural disaster.

Prior to the devastating earthquake in China, ponds drained, cows threw themselves about, and toads swarmed the streets — warning the people of the oncoming natural disaster. That's the story spreading around the Chinese blogosphere, according to the New York Times. As the rescue efforts continue, the Chinese are going online and asking why the government ignored these warning signs.

The toad invasion did in fact happen, spreading terror among residents prior to the quake. But despite the debunking of the rumor that the Communist government ignored scientific seismological warnings, bloggers are leveling powerful allegations that the government negligently contributed to the disaster by ignoring the harbingers.

The article explains that even well-educated Chinese subscribe to superstitions, such as omens, portents, and lucky numbers rooted in ancient cosmology. But the Communist Party is not following along. In fact, the government has arrested four people for spreading quake-related rumors. That's hardcore!

Do you think governments should be watching toads, or nature in general, as part of their emergency preparedness plans? Even if the Chinese government does not believe in superstitions, it has to deal with a population that does. How will China deal with its people who believe that the quake is a sign that things are not well?

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Love and Sex

Do You Throw Salt Over Your Shoulder?

My best friend does it.

My best friend does it. Her mom does it. I see strangers do it at restaurants, and now I do it too. Whenever a salt shaker falls over and spills, they stand it back up, pick up a pinch of salt, and throw it over their shoulder.

It's one of those obscure superstitions that have been passed down, such as knocking on wood, or not opening an umbrella inside, that we can't help but do. I'm sure many of you are salt throwers too, but do you know where this originated?

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Love and Sex

Do You Knock on Wood?

Ever since I could remember, I've been "knocking on wood."

Ever since I could remember, I've been "knocking on wood." I learned it from my mother actually - she is an avid wood knocker. It's something we do to prevent something bad from happening. I'll say something like, "I've never gotten pregnant while on the Pill, knock on wood." Or "It looks like it'll be sunny for our BBQ this weekend, knock on wood." And I don't just say "knock on wood," I also find wood and literally knock my knuckles on it. It's definitely one of my superstitions, and in some way, I feel like if I don't do it, I'll have bad luck.


So where did this weird little phenomenon of "knocking on wood" or "touching wood" start anyway? The origin isn't really known, but in the early 1800s, kids used to play a game called "Tiggy-touch-wood," where they had to touch wood in order to be "safe." It could be that the phrase stuck all these years.

I've also heard that people used to "knock on wood" to awaken the kind tree fairies that lived in the woods in addition to preventing the Devil from hearing your bad comments.

I came across a children's book called "Knock on Wood, " so I know I'm not the only one who believes in this, but now I'm curious to know - do you "knock on wood?"

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