
Most people learn the basics of making a baby — what goes where — at a pretty young age, but there's a lot more to it. The simple act of conceiving isn't actually that simple; there are numerous factors that can either increase or decrease a couple's chances. Whether you're trying to get pregnant — or trying not to get pregnant — knowing fact from fiction when it comes to conception is important. Take our quiz to find out how much you really know about getting knocked up.
Let's Talk about Sex, Baby: Kids' Books About the Birds and the Bees
Where do babies come from? This simple question, asked by almost every inquisitive child at some point, can render the most composed parent, a stammering fool. In itself, that one question isn't so terrible — it's what it signifies: that a sweet, innocent lil one is growing up.
This is the moment where parents really wish they had put a little more thought into how this conversation would take place. Will this be a strictly biological discussion? Or will love and marriage play a key role? Some parents will hold tight to the stork scenario until their kid leaves for college. How parents answer this universal situation will differ from family to family — all 5-year-old maturity levels are not created equal, and parents' comfort levels and religious beliefs will also inform the dialog. For the many moms and dads out there who don't feel quite as prepared as they'd like, the following books will help get the conversation started.
Sexy Trivia! What Do You Know?
Strange sex facts are a great way to show your smarts in, well, very few situations. But you're in luck, because this is one of them. See what you know about some of sex's strangest, and most fascinating, questions.
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Take the QuizHow Wild Is Our Sex . . . and Our Dreams?
Well, this wasn't exactly the most unbiased survey, but it certainly was comprehensive: the Stranger, Seattle's weekly alternative paper, asked 6,942 people their secrets in the bedroom, out of the bedroom, and in their dreams. Since one-third of the participants came from outside Washington state, I'm going to say it's close enough to represent what most people are doing — close enough for a quiz!
On Tap? A Test to Replace the Pap
The annual Pap smear could become a relic if a new DNA test proves as effective as promised. According to a study published last week in the New England Journal of Medicine, a new screening involving DNA could be better than all other tests in detecting HPV and cervical cancer.
For women over 30, the test would only have to be performed every three, five, or 10 years, which would mean an end to the annual smear. But doctors are hesitant to abandon Paps altogether, since the procedure has been incredibly effective at reducing rates of cervical cancer. The new test could be most helpful in lower-income countries, where there are fewer doctors trained to read Pap smears and it's more difficult for women to return for followup appointments. I'm sure I'm not the only one who would welcome a less invasive test; what do you think?
During an Orgasm, a Woman's Body . . .
We have sex to feel connected to our partners and to express our love, but for most of us, the main reason we're getting it on is for the amazing rush of pleasure we feel once we reach orgasm. It's an indescribable feeling of bliss, but have you ever wondered what happens to your body physically when you climax? If so, then keep reading.
- Once a woman becomes sexually aroused, her heart begins to beat quicker, she breathes faster and she'll tighten various muscles all over her body. Her breasts will enlarge slightly and her nipples will become erect. Some women's faces, necks, or chests will become flushed (a sex flush) and her clitoris enlarges.
- She'll notice that her vagina creates a natural lubricant which makes sex smoother and more enjoyable.
- Her labia will flatten out and open up and the inside of her vagina will lengthen and widen (preparing for you know what). All this happens because blood rushes to the pelvic area, which is called engorgement, and creates a pleasurably warm sensation in that area (I'm sure you've felt it!).
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What's the Deal With Glycol in Lubricants?
If you're prone to yeast infections, and you're a fan of using personal lubricant, then you probably found my Lube Quiz very helpful. It showed you which lubes contain glycerin and which don't, but I recently noticed another ingredient in some water-based products that I thought you should know about — propylene glycol.

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What Do You Know About Unplanned Pregnancies?
There are a plethora of birth control options out there so men and women can enjoy sex without having to worry about becoming parents before they're ready, but sometimes a couple has an "oops" moment. Whether it's because the birth control wasn't that effective (like the Pull and Pray Method), or something went wrong with it (like the condom broke) the result could be an unwanted pregnancy. To see what you know about the statistics and facts regarding unplanned pregnancies, take this quiz below.
Sex Myth: You Can't Get Pregnant If You're Nursing
I really get a kick out of the pregnancy myths floating around, like you can't get pregnant if you pee after sex, two condoms are better than one, and, of course, that you can't get pregnant while breastfeeding. A good friend of mine actually had to learn this one the hard way — she got pregnant while nursing her 10-month old son!
Using breastfeeding as contraception is known as lactational amenorrhea method (LAM), but since it's not 100 percent effective, you shouldn't rely on it unless you don't mind getting pregnant soon after giving birth. According to the World Health Organization, LAM is 98.8 to 99.1 percent effective while breastfeeding for the first six months, but you can conceive without knowing that you're menstrual cycle has returned to normal since you ovulate about two weeks before your period.
If you're not interested in becoming a mother again so soon, your best bet is to talk to your ob/gyn about an effective and safe form of birth control that you can use while breastfeeding.
Can Birth Control Pills Affect Your Cholesterol?
If you're like me, you don't give your cholesterol much thought. I always thought your cholesterol levels were based on whether or not you ate a lot of high-fat foods like cheese, meat, and ice cream, but you can also inherit high or low cholesterol from your parents. And I also just learned that taking birth control pills can affect your levels too.
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