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Say What? More Moms Are Moonlighting as Sex Phone Operators

What are you wearing?


What are you wearing? Making ends meet is becoming increasingly challenging for many Americans, including many single moms, who will do just about anything to keep their families afloat. For some stay-at-home-moms that includes taking work of a slightly scandalous nature — as a sex-phone operator.

A Good Morning America story about the stay-at-home-mom as sex phone operator phenomenon reported that the number of women with young children doing this type of work has increased 400 percent over the past 18 months. Thanks to a dismal economy, high childcare costs, and the difficulty of finding decent, well paying jobs that allow women to be home with their kids, the sex phone business is just too lucrative to walk away from for many women, despite their conflict about verbally fulfilling the fantasies of strangers while their lil ones are asleep down the hall.

Would you ever consider this type of work? Or judge someone who does?

Love and Sex

4 Types of Guys Who Call Sex Lines

In Granta's latest Sex Issue, a former sex phone operator, who now identifies herself as a conservative wife and mother, recalls her days on the phone from her first call to early retirement.

In Granta's latest Sex Issue, a former sex phone operator, who now identifies herself as a conservative wife and mother, recalls her days on the phone from her first call to early retirement.

She quit when it got old, which was fast. All men, she says, fall into four groups: sneakies, regulars, kinkies, and boyfriends. When she started sizing up every man she met by imagining what type of caller he'd be, she knew it was time to stop. But not without briefing us about the four guys on the other end of the line.

  • Sneakies: The easiest clients, who require the least amount of attention, because "all thought processes were being conducted below the waist." All they want to know is the operator is incredibly hot and hot for him. Requires "verbal vanilla-porn" and a hand-held mixer (sounds like a vibrator) to complete the call.
  • Regulars: Tend to be shy men who aren't very forthcoming about what they want, which is usually girl-on-girl fantasy. He gets the "party call" in which two more operators act out a scene.
  • Kinkies: The most difficult clients, because they require the most attention and creativity. Kinkies typically want a dominatrix to tell them what to do with rubber bands, ice cubes, and other assorted household items.
  • Boyfriends: "Lonely, nerdy, always needy" boyfriends call in the early evening. They could just as easily call a free counseling line, as they mostly require listening and encouragement. All they want is a beautiful woman to pay attention to them.

Regardless of how you feel about phone sex, especially paid, does it depress you that men's sexual appetites are so predictable? Or should that be no surprise?

relationships

Where Do You Stand? Phone Sex

When you're in a long-distance relationship, face-to-face contact is sometimes hard to come by, which is why couples have to get creative in order to keep the romance alive.

When you're in a long-distance relationship, face-to-face contact is sometimes hard to come by, which is why couples have to get creative in order to keep the romance alive. And luckily, with so many ways to communicate these days (text, email, iChat, and of course the phone) it's easier than ever to stay connected to your lover. So to all of you who spend time away from your special someone, tell me where you stand when it comes to being intimate over the airwaves. Is it something that totally turns you on, or are you too bashful for phone sex?

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Do You Agree With Bristol Palin That Abstinence Is Unrealistic?

When Sarah Palin was running for vice president, it was all over the news that her daughter, Bristol Palin, only 17 years old, was pregnant and engaged to marry her high school boyfriend.

When Sarah Palin was running for vice president, it was all over the news that her daughter, Bristol Palin, only 17 years old, was pregnant and engaged to marry her high school boyfriend. Now 18 and a new mom, she's speaking out in hopes of preventing other young teens from becoming parents. In an interview with Greta Van Susteren on a recent FOX News segment, Bristol said she wants to be an advocate against teen pregnancy, and encourages all teens to wait 10 years until they're married, living in their own home, and stable in their career before starting a family.

Even though her mother is a staunch "right to life" advocate, Bristol believes that in this day and age, her mother's view on abstinence is "not realistic at all." So what do you think? Do you agree that sex is acceptable at a younger age now and pregnancy prevention is what should be the main focus in schools? Or should educators still try to push teens to be abstinent?

If you're curious to see a video of Bristol's interview, read more

Sex

A Do or a Don't: Sexy Texts

Since texting is so common these days, it's definitely had an effect on dating.

Since texting is so common these days, it's definitely had an effect on dating. For some of my friends, flirting with their significant others via text during the day helps keep the romance alive at night! And sure, a couple of flirty texts here and there is one thing, but a steamy text session is another! I’ve actually had more than one person confess to me that they love getting frisky via text. Frankly, it seems a bit tricky to me — I guess you have to have a really good imagination! Have you engaged in naughty texts? Or is a text the last thing you think of as sexy?

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A Do or a Don't: Phone Sex

I've never been one for phone sex — I honestly think I'd laugh the entire time, but for those couples stuck in a long-distance relationship, phone sex makes perfect sense!




I've never been one for phone sex — I honestly think I'd laugh the entire time, but for those couples stuck in a long-distance relationship, phone sex makes perfect sense! Since I'm a virgin in this department, let me ask all of you this question — is phone sex a do or a don't?

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You Asked: He Called Out His Ex's Name During Phone Sex!!

Dear Sugar-- My best friend of 5 years and I recently started going out.

Dear Sugar--

My best friend of 5 years and I recently started going out. Before me, he was with another girl for 3 years but he has repeatedly told me that he doesn't have feelings for her anymore.

This morning, he and I were having phone sex and in the middle of it, he said her name! I hung up and he called me back, leaving 12 messages about how much he loves me and how sorry he was - begging me to pick up the phone.

I really really like this guy and he claims to care for me the same way but I don't know how to react to what happened. I told him I don't want him speaking to his ex ever again but I am worried about giving him an ultimatum. He claims they are only friends and she means nothing to him but I'm worried he'll pick her "friendship" over me. What should I do? I don't want to lose him but I don't want him to think he can do things like that! Should I give him another chance?

--Hurt Hannah

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Humor

61 Year Old Phone Sex Operator

Sue here has been "pleasuring men on a phone conversation line" since 1988 and she's not ashamed one bit.

Sue here has been "pleasuring men on a phone conversation line" since 1988 and she's not ashamed one bit. In fact, she gives Judge Mathis an in-person sample of her sexy time talk and, needless to say, the bailiff had to come to his rescue. I'm surprised Mathis didn't turn around and sue her for damages!

Love and Sex

You Asked: I Don't Know How to Talk Dirty

DearSugar -- I have been with my boyfriend for 4 months, and he is always trying to get me to have phone sex with him.



DearSugar --

I have been with my boyfriend for 4 months, and he is always trying to get me to have phone sex with him. I always try to avoid the conversation as much as possible. The problem is, I don't know how to. Can you help me? -- Shy Sharon


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