Change

DIY

5 Clever Ways to Use Spare Change

Most of us have spare change lying around, but not all of us need to use it for parking meters or laundromats.

Most of us have spare change lying around, but not all of us need to use it for parking meters or laundromats. So what are some other things we can do with it? Here are a few suggestions to make your wallets lighter.

  • Cash it: This might be an obvious suggestion, but it's also one that doesn't happen all that often. Gather all those spare coins and take them to a bank or a local Coinstar. The catch? The bank usually makes you roll your own coins, while Coinstar charges 9.8 cents for every dollar. Still, you'll get a whole lot more back than if your change was just sitting in a jar.
  • Upcycle it: If you're the creative type, there are plenty of ways to DIY your way through nickels and dimes. Turn them into necklaces or rings — or glue them onto wooden letters for a shiny home display.
  • Donate it: Whether it's taking the money you get from Coinstar and donating it to an organization, giving change to someone on the street, or helping out a kid selling chocolates on the subway, there are plenty of ways to use your change to help others. You'll do good without feeling like you're breaking the bank.
  • Tip: If you know that you're someone who will never take the change out of the jar, then don't put it there in the first place. Stop yourself from collecting coins by telling vendors to keep the change or by tipping workers at places like Starbucks and Jamba Juice.
  • Set it aside: Every week or so, take out some change and use it to treat yourself. Buy a lotto ticket or a vending-machine snack; they're little things, but they can still brighten up your day.
Advice

Group Therapy: In Need of a Change, but Not Sure What

This question comes from a Group Therapy post in our TrèsSugar Community.

This question comes from a Group Therapy post in our TrèsSugar Community. Add your advice in the comments!

Overall, I would say that I have a good life, but it feels like something is missing. I moved to my current town 9 years ago to attend college and I remained here after graduation. I really have enjoyed my time here. I have met some really good people. Since it is a college town though, it can be hard to "fit in" unless you are out at the college bars all the time or are here with a family. I'm somewhere in the middle.

A majority of my friends from college that are nearby are now married and/or have started their own families. I have a decent job that I enjoy, but I don't think I can say that it is my life's passion. My family is wonderful and I love spending time with them. They live about 3 hours away from me and I try to see them once a month or so. I have a boyfriend and for the most part it's a good relationship. We have been together for 9 months or so. While I care a lot about him and truly enjoy our time together, I'm not 100% sure that he is the one. He recently told me that he loves me and has talked about wanting to get married. I'm not in a huge rush to get married at all, to anyone.

So as you can see, my life isn't horrible. I just feel like I haven't done what I'm meant to yet, and I'm not sure what that is. I have toyed with the idea of moving to a bigger city, but at the same time I like being within driving distance of my family. I am starting to feel like I am just "comfortable" with where my life is right now. I don't want to just be "comfortable." I want to be great, outstanding, exciting, etc. I get into ruts and it is hard for me to make big changes. I want to live my life to the fullest and I don't know that I'm doing that right now. I'm in my late 20s and don't want to look back and see that I've just settled for life. I'm not really sure where to start making changes though? Ideas?

Have a dilemma of your own? Post it, anonymously, to Group Therapy for advice, and check out what else is happening in the TrèsSugar Community.

relationships

Say What? Police Chief Waxes Philosophical

"There is never a good time to leave, but there is a right time.


"There is never a good time to leave, but there is a right time. It is the right time."

— Los Angeles Police Chief William J. Bratton, who made the surprising announcement yesterday that he is resigning. I find this quote very poignant. You could apply it to most any job, relationship, or other major life change. It's never easy, but sometimes, you gotta move on.

relationships

You Asked: How Can I Change?

Dear Sugar, Me and my boyfriend got into a couple of bad fights last month.

Dear Sugar,

Me and my boyfriend got into a couple of bad fights last month. Actually it was more like me yelling like a crazy person and him trying to walk away. He says he does that so he won't say something he'll regret, but I take it as him not listening or not caring. We finally talked a week after our last spat, and he told me that he doesn't think it's going to work out because he's tired of trying.

Every time it gets to the point where he wants to breakup with me, I change my tune and don't sweat the small stuff. But after a couple of months go by, I get back into the routine of getting upset and flipping out. I know I need an attitude adjustment and I want to change, but I don't know how. Do you have any advice? — Want to Save My Relationship Sandra

To see DearSugar's answer read more

Poll

Dear Poll: Are You Good With Change?

Change makes the world go round and it enables us to grow and learn more about ourselves, but change can be terrifying for some.




Change makes the world go round and it enables us to grow and learn more about ourselves, but change can be terrifying for some. While I appreciate the lessons learned once the change has occurred, as a creature of habit, I have to admit that I don't handle it very well. What about you? Are you good with change?

Source


relationships

You Asked: Can I Trust That He's Changed?

Dear Sugar, I was with my boyfriend for eight years; we were engaged and owned a house together.

Dear Sugar,

I was with my boyfriend for eight years; we were engaged and owned a house together. Things changed over the years, and he became a very negative and controlling boyfriend — we fought all the time. To make a long story short, I broke off the engagement and moved out. We sold the house and went our separate ways.

This past Summer, after being apart for nearly two years, we reconnected. He promised me that he has changed and that his love for me never went away. After spending some time with him, I can tell that he is in fact a changed man, and I'm really happy to be back in his life. He recently asked me to move back in with him, and after much thought, I agreed.

While I'm excited to be back together, I fear that the controlling and manipulative side of him will come out again. I love him with all my heart, but I just don't want to go through what I did before. I know I need to let go of the past and think positively toward a great future together, but I can't help it! Can a person really stay changed for the better? — Skeptical Sally

To see DearSugar's answer, read more

dating and technology

Greg Behrendt on Common Dating Mistakes

No one is perfect and we all make mistakes, but when it comes to dating, I see women making the same ones over and over again.



No one is perfect and we all make mistakes, but when it comes to dating, I see women making the same ones over and over again. I know it's hard to see clearly sometimes when you're smitten with someone, but repeating bad behavior can quickly turn into a vicious cycle.

If you're curious to see what author Greg Behrendt thinks the most common dating mistake women make is, just read more

Sex

Do Tell: What One Thing Would You Change About Your Sex Life?

Last weekend I asked you all to share the one thing you'd change about your relationship, and though your responses were all over the board, a few of you alluded to making changes in your sex life.

Last weekend I asked you all to share the one thing you'd change about your relationship, and though your responses were all over the board, a few of you alluded to making changes in your sex life. Having a healthy sex life takes a lot of communication in the bedroom, so do tell, if you could change one thing about what happens behind closed doors, what would it be? And don't be shy, I'm sure your gripes aren't far off from everyone else's!

Source