This may sound crazy but I'm dating a guy I actually like and I don't know what to do. Normally I date guys who I don't like or who I know are not right for me-bad boys. I date them for a couple of weeks and use them for sex until I get bored and move onto the next guy. I guess you could say this is my self defense mechanism acting up. I know I am afraid of being hurt by a guy because I was incredibly heart broken after my last serious relationship ended badly 2 years ago. So I don't let any guys get close enough to hurt me ever. I stop dating them because they don't drink wine or aren't cultured or whatever other reason I can make up.

However now I've met this guy who is actually really nice and quite fabulous. He is intellectual, ambitious, and not like any other guy I've dated and I think I may really like him and that quite possibly the feeling is mutual. I feel like I am a doe caught in the headlights because my normal games wont work. And I'm afraid to do anything because I don't want to scare him away. It's like I can't remember how to act around a guy I like! Help! What do I do?
Lost In Like Lizzie

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Hello! I have a question and I am wondering who else has been in this situation. I work in a large office that is mostly women. At any given time there are 3 women who are pregnant and another five getting married. My question is this: in each situation, there are co-workers who plan showers for these women, usually short, small lunches just to congratulate them. I do not have a problem with this at all. Problem is, some of them have stepped it up to a new level. Last week I got the latest e-mail invitation for a surprise baby shower for an expecting co-worker.

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