Dear Sugar,
My boyfriend and I have been together for two years. We've discussed having sex but we agreed that we would wait until we were married. I feel strongly about waiting, not for religious reasons, but because I just have a gut feeling about it. Out of the blue one day, he said that he's ready and wants us to have sex while we are young and still having fun. He also said that he thought that as a guy, he doesn't feel he can wait until we're married. I am torn between what I feel is right and making him happy. What should I do?
—Wanting to Wait Wendy
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Fri, 12/07/2007 - 4:00pm by Anonymous
Yesterday my supposedly best friend sent me a letter, in which she confesses to having had sex with my ex-boyfriend on a number of occasions. He and I did not part amicably and I still feel a great deal of regret/hurt/anger/ about the relationship. I've found a great new love, but I'm obviously not done dealing with what I went through with my ex. What makes matters worse is that I have tried to call her, e-mail her, MySpace message her for over a month, but she was probably too scared to contact me. And now this.
My question to you is what should I do? I already sent her a letter, explaining how angry and hurt I am. I feel betrayed and stupid for trusting her. We've been friends for seven years, and she's not even in love with my ex — she was just desperate, I guess. I tried to call her yesterday, and she didn't pick up. Is she a friend worth keeping?
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