Tue, 02/19/2008 - 3:00am by Anonymous
I live in a house with three other women including my girlfriend. Last fall, one of our roommates moved in with her boyfriend and we found a replacement on Craigslist. When she moved in she had a boyfriend, but three days ago they broke up. Yesterday she tells my girlfriend "we broke up so don't be surprised if you see other boys at the house." Well not 24 hours later is she having loud sex with a guy I've never seen before.
While I understand it's not my place to judge her personal life, I'm not at all comfortable with her bringing strangers into the house. The chance of this guy grabbing my iPod off of the dining room table is disconcerting, but the idea of him endangering our two pets is even worse. I always try to give people a chance but this guy is just creepy and my fear is that her comment yesterday suggests he is only the first of many.
What can you say to a 30 year old roommate who you don't know very well in this type of situation? How do you ask someone whether or not they know the people they are bringing home and sleeping with? I don't want to make things uncomfortable, but I don't feel good about having strange guys in my house. Help!
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Elections in Italy are only two months away, and an unexpected issue — abortion — has now taken center stage. Thirty years ago, the Catholic country legalized abortion. But just last week, an intense situation at a Naples hospital sparked pro-choice rallies across the country.
In what is being described as an anti-mafia type raid, Naples police stormed a hospital after getting word that a woman had had an abortion after the legal cut off. Police interrogated the woman who was still under anesthesia from the procedure, and seized the terminated fetus. In fact, the woman was only 21 weeks along, within the 24 week cut off.
Pro-choice Italians are not the only ones getting fired up about the issue. Giuliano Ferrara, a conservative journalist and close ally of former Prime Minister Silvio Berlusconi, recently began using his newspaper as a platform for his pro-life position. He announced that he will seek election to parliament in April, and will be running on an anti-abortion platform.
Obviously abortion is a controversial and touchy subject spurring passionate opinions. But, how do you feel about how police handled the situation in Naples? Is there any way to police alleged late abortions? And, also — what do you think about politicians running on a single issue, whether it be anti-abortion, or anti-war? Would you vote for a politician who promised to address the issue most important to you, even if you disagreed with him or her on the rest?
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Dear Sugar,
I'm almost 21, attending a great college, and generally happy, and I have a great boyfriend who loves me very much, but I'm still so depressed. I will be happy one minute, and the next I'll be sad, angry, and crying uncontrollably. I have problems with anxiety, but I don't think that is the problem. I feel like I'm losing my mind. Please help me!
— A Mix of Emotions Melinda
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Think you know your Green Room from your Queen's Bedroom from your Lincoln's Bedroom? If you haven't seen the recent exclusive pictures of the newly redone White House in this month's Architectural Digest, you might not recognize them.
Perfect timing for President's Day, the glossy spread features updates to the decor in almost a dozen rooms, including the Oval Office. From the first occupant, John Adams in 1800, every president has added his own touch to the residence. FDR added the movie theater, which is also featured in the story, having been redone in the rich, red upholstery of early 20th century movie palaces, which was Mrs. Bush's inspiration. I love the calm and crisp yellow in the new Vermeil room, with Lady Bird Johnson's portrait above the mantel.

AD has a fantastic slideshow of the whole house, highlighting all of the updates. Now, I'm no Casa, but my favorite pieces are the rosy-brocade bench at the foot of the bed in the Queen's room and the new Restoration Hardware-esque bedding in the Lincoln Bedroom. I wonder who will be staying there in the Bushes' final year? Moving out of that house must be pretty hard.
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