Laura Marie Meyers
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Advice

Heat It Up: 9 Fresh Ideas For a Sexy Summer

Whether you're single, looking, or in a relationship, these tips will guarantee a hot Summer — in more ways than one.

Whether you're single, looking, or in a relationship, these tips will guarantee a hot Summer — in more ways than one. Hoping to spice things up this season? With ideas to help you boost your confidence, invigorate your dating life, and heat things up in the bedroom, we're offering nine easy ways to have a fun, sexy Summer. Take a look at these creative ideas to make this your hottest Summer yet!

What to TiVo

What to TiVo: Monday

ABC 8:00 Dancing With the Stars (new) 10:00 Motive (new, series premiere) 11:35 Jimmy Kimmel Live!
  • ABC
    8:00 Dancing With the Stars (new)
    10:00 Motive (new, series premiere)
    11:35 Jimmy Kimmel Live! (repeat, with guest Ed Helms)
    12:37 Nightline (new)

  • CBS
    8:00 2 Broke Girls (repeat)
    8:30 Rules of Engagement (new)
    9:00 The Big Bang Theory (repeat)
    9:30 Mike & Molly (new, season finale)
    10:00 Hawaii Five-0 (new, season finale)
    11:35 Late Show With David Letterman (new, with guest Will Smith)
    12:37 The Late Late Show With Craig Ferguson (new, with guests Heather Graham and David Benioff)

  • Fox
    8:00 Raising Hope (repeat)
    8:30 The Goodwin Games (new, series premiere)
    9:00 New Girl (repeat)
    9:30 The Mindy Project (repeat)

  • NBC
    8:00 The Voice (new)
    10:00 Revolution (new)
    11:34 The Tonight Show With Jay Leno (new, with guests Bradley Cooper and Heidi Klum)
    12:37 Late Night With Jimmy Fallon (new, with guests Colin Farrell and Jaden Smith)

  • The CW
    8:00 Oh Sit! (new)
    9:00 Oh Sit! (new)

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summer

13 Summer Shows to Carry You Through the Season

If you're already mourning the finales of your favorite Spring shows, not to worry — there's an exciting Summer TV lineup that's sure to fill the void.

If you're already mourning the finales of your favorite Spring shows, not to worry — there's an exciting Summer TV lineup that's sure to fill the void. With the much-anticipated return of Arrested Development, the final season of Breaking Bad, new episodes of True Blood and The Newsroom, plus plenty of brand-new series, you'll have more than enough reasons to keep tuning in. Take a look at the must-see shows coming up this Summer!

Fall TV

Get to Know All the New Fall Shows!

We may be in the midst of Spring season finales, but we're already looking ahead to some of the exciting shows coming up this Fall.

We may be in the midst of Spring season finales, but we're already looking ahead to some of the exciting shows coming up this Fall. With familiar faces like Rebel Wilson, Andy Samberg, and Jonathan Rhys Meyers heading to the small screen, we can't wait to set our DVRs. Check out all the comedies and dramas to look forward to this Fall!

celebrity couples

L'Amour! Cannes Couples Past and Present

It's hard to think of a more glamorous place for a romantic rendezvous than Cannes, France.

It's hard to think of a more glamorous place for a romantic rendezvous than Cannes, France. First held in 1946, the annual Cannes Film Festival has attracted lucky Hollywood couples to the South of France. We're spreading the love with a look at past and present twosomes who made the festival's exclusive guest list. While some of the couples went on to break up, their je ne sais quoi lives on.

What to TiVo

What to TiVo: Sunday

ABC 8:00 Billboard Music Awards CBS 8:00 60 Minutes (new) 9:00 ACM Presents: Tim McGraw's Superstar Summer Night Fox 8:00 The Simpsons (new, season finale) 9:00 Family Guy (new, season finale) NBC 7:00 The Voice (repeat) 9:00 The Celebrity Apprentice (new, season finale) More TV to watch when you [break]read more.[/break] AMC 10:00 Mad Men (new) Bravo 8:00 Watch What Happens Live (new) 9:00 Married to Medicine (new, season finale) E!
  • ABC
    8:00 Billboard Music Awards

  • CBS
    8:00 60 Minutes (new)
    9:00 ACM Presents: Tim McGraw's Superstar Summer Night


  • Fox
    8:00 The Simpsons (new, season finale)
    9:00 Family Guy (new, season finale)

  • NBC
    7:00 The Voice (repeat)
    9:00 The Celebrity Apprentice (new, season finale)

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Movies

Girl Power: The Leading Ladies of Summer Movies

This Summer, some of the most well-known women in Hollywood will be lighting up the big screen as superheroes, cops, magicians, '90s teens, and more.

This Summer, some of the most well-known women in Hollywood will be lighting up the big screen as superheroes, cops, magicians, '90s teens, and more. While some actresses are returning to popular roles for sequels, others will be treading in new territory — like Emma Watson, who's playing a shallow socialite in Sofia Coppola's latest film. We've already shown you the boys of Summer, so now take a look at the leading ladies of Summer!

What to TiVo

What to TiVo: Saturday

ABC 8:00 Bet on Your Baby (new) 9:00 A Special Edition of 20/20 With Babara Walters (new) CBS 8:00 Elementary (repeat) 9:00 Criminal Minds (repeat) 10:00 48 Hours (new) Fox 8:00 Cops (repeat) 8:30 Cops (repeat) 9:00 Cops (repeat) 9:30 Cops (repeat) 11:00 Hell's Kitchen (repeat) 12:00 Ben & Kate (repeat) NBC 8:00 Grimm (repeat) 9:00 Law & Order: SVU (repeat) 10:00 Saturday Night Live (repeat) 11:29 Saturday Night Live (new, with host Ben Affleck and musical guest Kanye West) More TV to watch when you [break]read more.[/break] HBO 9:00 2013 Rock and Roll Hall of Fame Induction Ceremony
  • ABC
    8:00 Bet on Your Baby (new)
    9:00 A Special Edition of 20/20 With Babara Walters (new)

  • CBS
    8:00 Elementary (repeat)
    9:00 Criminal Minds (repeat)
    10:00 48 Hours (new)

  • Fox
    8:00 Cops (repeat)
    8:30 Cops (repeat)
    9:00 Cops (repeat)
    9:30 Cops (repeat)
    11:00 Hell's Kitchen (repeat)
    12:00 Ben & Kate (repeat)

  • NBC
    8:00 Grimm (repeat)
    9:00 Law & Order: SVU (repeat)
    10:00 Saturday Night Live (repeat)
    11:29 Saturday Night Live (new, with host Ben Affleck and musical guest Kanye West)

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relationships

GIF Quiz: Are You Over Him?

You swear you've moved on from your ex, but then you find yourself stalking his Facebook page, drunk texting, and "coincidentally" ending up in his neighborhood — sound familiar?

You swear you've moved on from your ex, but then you find yourself stalking his Facebook page, drunk texting, and "coincidentally" ending up in his neighborhood — sound familiar? Accepting that you're not over him is the first step to actually getting over him, so to help you ditch the denial stage, we've rounded up some clear signs that you're still in love with your ex. Struggling to move on and sick of the sad breakup songs? Take a look at these hilarious GIFs to have a laugh and move forward!

relationships

Why Swapping Ex Stories Might Actually Benefit Your Relationship

Talking about your ex with a new guy may feel like the ultimate don't, but sharing some insights into your past relationships might actually be a good thing.

Talking about your ex with a new guy may feel like the ultimate don't, but sharing some insights into your past relationships might actually be a good thing. And although you definitely don't want to hear all the nitty-gritty details of each other's past relationships, learning about those connections — and fallouts — could bring you closer together. Before you agree on a no-ex-talk ultimatum, take a look at these surprising benefits of opening up.

  • You can better understand each other's relationship habits. Regularly find yourself annoyed whenever he gets jealous, defensive, or overly protective? If you learn some of the pitfalls of each other's past relationships, it'll help you both understand where the other's coming from, and as silly as it sounds, you can find comfort in the fact that it's not you — it's the exes.
  • You open the doors to other kinds of communication. Honest, open dialogue in one area of your relationship could trigger a domino effect, leading to more candid conversations altogether. Once you've relayed the ins and outs of your previous heartbreaks, you'll have broken down a barrier in your relationship. From there, you may feel more comfortable talking about sex, insecurities, or other topics that made you nervous in the past.
  • You learn where each other's insecurities lie. Knowing what didn't work for each other in the past can help you avoid those hot-button topics or issues. If, for instance, he ended things with his ex because she became too dependent, you can make a genuine effort to build up your own independent lifestyle.

The bottom line: Opening up about your past relationships doesn't have to mean opening up a can of worms. If you stick to an honest, considerate line of communication, ex talk can actually bring you closer together.

Geek gear

11 Tech Items to Consider For Your Wedding Registry

Technology may not be the first thing that comes to mind when you think of your wedding registry, but the gifting possibilities go beyond traditional fine china, fancy flatware, and bedding.

Technology may not be the first thing that comes to mind when you think of your wedding registry, but the gifting possibilities go beyond traditional fine china, fancy flatware, and bedding. If you depend on geeky gadgets on a day-to-day basis, feel free to add a few to your list. This isn't to say that you should go nuts at Best Buy scanning each and every dream gift, but it's important to include items that you genuinely want and need.

A good place to start: learn the proper registry protocol. Etiquette experts at Emily Post offer smart wedding registry rules to help you navigate the formalities. Anna Post confirms that it's perfectly OK to create a more unconventional registry with camping or tech items, but you should also provide guests with a more traditional list, too. Hoping to include some technology, but not sure where to start? Here are a few basic items to consider:

  • DSLR camera, like the Nikon D800
  • Laptop
  • iPad
  • Flatscreen TV
  • Record player, like this affordable Wood Turntable
  • iPod speakers
  • Blu-Ray player
  • Gaming system
  • Stereo system with surround sound
  • The Nest Thermostat
  • High-tech washer/dryer

Current and former brides-to-be: Did you include any technology on your registry? If so, which items? Share your suggestions in the comments below!

Wedding

11 Ways For the Groom to Add His Touch to the Big Day

If your guy isn't quite sure how to get involved in the wedding planning, consider this his simple idea cheat sheet.

If your guy isn't quite sure how to get involved in the wedding planning, consider this his simple idea cheat sheet. With a range of options related to style, creative projects, and the nitty-gritty to-dos, we've rounded up a variety of fun ways for him to add his touch to the big day. Share these tips with your husband-to-be to help him find ways to contribute — and take a few things off your list!

What to TiVo

What to TiVo: Friday

ABC 8:00 Shark Tank (new) 9:00 Shark Tank (new, season finale) 10:00 20/20 (new) 11:35 Jimmy Kimmel Live (new, with guests Adam Levine and Alice Eve) 12:37 Nightline (new) CBS 8:00 Undercover Boss (new, season finale) 9:00 Undercover Boss (repeat) 10:00 48 Hours (new) 11:35 Late Show With David Letterman (new, with guest Will Arnett) 12:37 The Late Late Show With Craig Ferguson (new, with guests William Shatner and Natalie Dormer) Fox 8:00 Kitchen Nightmares (repeat) 9:00 Bones (repeat) NBC 8:00 Dateline NBC (new) 10:00 Rock Center With Brian Williams (new) 11:34 The Tonight Show With Jay Leno (new, with guests Mitt Romney and the winner of American Idol) 12:37 Late Night With Jimmy Fallon (new, with guests Zoe Saldana and Chris O'Dowd) The CW 8:00 Nikita (new, season finale) 9:00 Supernatural (repeat) More TV to watch when you [break]read more.[/break] E!
  • ABC
    8:00 Shark Tank (new)
    9:00 Shark Tank (new, season finale)
    10:00 20/20 (new)
    11:35 Jimmy Kimmel Live (new, with guests Adam Levine and Alice Eve)
    12:37 Nightline (new)

  • CBS
    8:00 Undercover Boss (new, season finale)
    9:00 Undercover Boss (repeat)
    10:00 48 Hours (new)
    11:35 Late Show With David Letterman (new, with guest Will Arnett)
    12:37 The Late Late Show With Craig Ferguson (new, with guests William Shatner and Natalie Dormer)

  • Fox
    8:00 Kitchen Nightmares (repeat)
    9:00 Bones (repeat)

  • NBC
    8:00 Dateline NBC (new)
    10:00 Rock Center With Brian Williams (new)
    11:34 The Tonight Show With Jay Leno (new, with guests Mitt Romney and the winner of American Idol)
    12:37 Late Night With Jimmy Fallon (new, with guests Zoe Saldana and Chris O'Dowd)

  • The CW
    8:00 Nikita (new, season finale)
    9:00 Supernatural (repeat)

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TV

Check Out the Trailers For The CW's New Shows

This Fall, The CW has a brand-new schedule, and there are plenty of shows to be excited about, including a Vampire Diaries spin-off and several new series.

This Fall, The CW has a brand-new schedule, and there are plenty of shows to be excited about, including a Vampire Diaries spin-off and several new series. Royals caught in a love triangle, vampires taking over New Orleans, a superhuman teen torn between his people and dangerous scientists — the new shows will bring lots of romance, drama, and action to the small screen. Take a look at all the new shows headed to The CW!

Advice

What to Do When You Don't Like Him Back

If a friend or co-worker is into you and you don't feel the same, it can be more than a little awkward to let him down.


If a friend or co-worker is into you and you don't feel the same, it can be more than a little awkward to let him down. Whether he's a lifelong pal, an acquaintance you'll be seeing around, or a guy who works just a few cubicles away, that common ground can make turning him down feel impossible. Still, that's no reason to pretend you're into him just because it's easier. Instead, follow these tips to say no under even the trickiest of circumstances:

  • Evaluate the relationship. Before you reject any date offers, take the time to step back and consider your approach. If you're feeling 50/50 on whether or not you're interested, think about what you'd gain or lose by giving him a shot. Is it worth going on a date to see if sparks fly? Would he feel better if you at least gave it a chance? Or is he the type who'd rather not go through the motions if you know you're not into it?
  • Don't dillydally. It's never polite to wait days before responding, but it's especially rude when you've been asked out by someone you already know. No matter what kind of news you'll be passing along, be respectful and make a point to reply the same day.
  • Pick the right medium to communicate. If it's a friend who's casually texted to ask you out, it's perfectly fine to text him your response. Dealing with a co-worker? Don't IM him from 20 feet away. Instead, muster the courage to say something face-to-face — he'll appreciate that you were up front with him, and you'll avoid the awkwardness of seeing him just after you've messaged him with a refusal.
  • Set the postrejection tone. Chances are, he's going to feel a bit blue after you've turned him down, so it's on you to establish a normal, easygoing vibe. Smile and make small talk, but don't go overboard and shower him with attention, because that'll only rub salt in the wound. People tend to mimic the way they're treated, so do your best to treat him like a friendly acquaintance and hopefully, eventually, he'll be able to rise to the occasion himself.
What to TiVo

What to TiVo: Thursday

ABC 8:00 Wipeout (new) 9:00 Grey's Anatomy (new, season finale) 10:00 Scandal (new, season finale) 11:35 Jimmy Kimmel Live (new, with guests Chris Pine and Connie Britton) 12:37 Nightline (new) CBS 8:00 The Big Bang Theory (new, season finale) 8:30 The Big Bang Theory (repeat) 9:00 Elementary (new, season finale) 11:35 Late Show With David Letterman (new, with guests Barbara Walters and Jesse Eisenberg) 12:37 The Late Late Show With Craig Ferguson (new, with guests Paul Reiser and Yunjin Kim) Fox 8:00 American Idol (new, season finale) NBC 8:00 The Office (new, retrospective special) 9:00 The Office (new, series finale) 10:15 Hannibal (new) 11:34 The Tonight Show With Jay Leno (new, with guests Adam Sandler and Phil Jackson) 12:37 Late Night With Jimmy Fallon (new, with guest Tim McGraw) The CW 8:00 The Vampire Diaries (new, season finale) 9:00 Beauty and the Beast (new, season finale) More TV to watch when you [break]read more.[/break] A&E 9:00 The First 48 (repeat) 10:00 The First 48 (repeat) AMC 10:00 Small Town Security (new) Bravo 10:00 Tabatha Takes Over (new) Comedy Central 11:00 The Daily Show With Jon Stewart (new, with guest George Packer) 11:31 Colbert Report (new, with guest Daniel Lieberman) E!
  • ABC
    8:00 Wipeout (new)
    9:00 Grey's Anatomy (new, season finale)
    10:00 Scandal (new, season finale)
    11:35 Jimmy Kimmel Live (new, with guests Chris Pine and Connie Britton)
    12:37 Nightline (new)

  • CBS
    8:00 The Big Bang Theory (new, season finale)
    8:30 The Big Bang Theory (repeat)
    9:00 Elementary (new, season finale)
    11:35 Late Show With David Letterman (new, with guests Barbara Walters and Jesse Eisenberg)
    12:37 The Late Late Show With Craig Ferguson (new, with guests Paul Reiser and Yunjin Kim)

  • Fox
    8:00 American Idol (new, season finale)

  • NBC
    8:00 The Office (new, retrospective special)
    9:00 The Office (new, series finale)
    10:15 Hannibal (new)
    11:34 The Tonight Show With Jay Leno (new, with guests Adam Sandler and Phil Jackson)
    12:37 Late Night With Jimmy Fallon (new, with guest Tim McGraw)

  • The CW
    8:00 The Vampire Diaries (new, season finale)
    9:00 Beauty and the Beast (new, season finale)

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TV

See Jim and Pam's Road to Office Romance — in GIFs

With the series finale of The Office approaching, we're celebrating Pam and Jim's sweet love story by taking a look at the couple's best moments through the years.

With the series finale of The Office approaching, we're celebrating Pam and Jim's sweet love story by taking a look at the couple's best moments through the years. The road wasn't always easy for Pam and Jim, but a wedding and two kids later, their romance still makes fans swoon. From rocky beginnings to a (more or less) happily ever after, here's the story of everyone's favorite Scranton couple — in GIFs.

Wedding

Ways to Make Wedding Details More Budget-Friendly For Your Bridesmaids

From attire to travel to gifts and favors, your wedding can be a major investment for your bridesmaids.

From attire to travel to gifts and favors, your wedding can be a major investment for your bridesmaids. Standing up as part of the bridal party means tons of extra expenses, so it's smart to step back and see how you can keep costs low for your friends. Hoping to help them out by minimizing expenses? Here are 7 simple, thoughtful ways to make your wedding festivities more budget-friendly for your bridesmaids.

Wedding

Channel the Charming South of France For Your Big Day

Rolling vineyards, cobblestone streets, fresh lavender — the South of France offers the perfect setting for a charming, rustic wedding.

Rolling vineyards, cobblestone streets, fresh lavender — the South of France offers the perfect setting for a charming, rustic wedding. Sure, there's something to be said for Parisian romance, but with the Cannes Film Festival taking place, we're shining a spotlight on beautiful wedding details inspired by the South of France. To bring some French country flair to your big day no matter where you say "I do," take a look at these gorgeous ideas from real weddings!

community

"I Don't Trust Him, but I Can't Get Over Him"

This question is from a Group Therapy post in our community.

This question is from a Group Therapy post in our community. Add your advice in the comments!

My boyfriend and I broke up a while back, but I never distanced myself from. It's still pretty fresh, but I am moving on and I'm trying to get over him. Right now I love and hate him at the same time. Possible? There are nights I miss him so much, and I know that if I call he'll talk, but coldly. He'll say, "Please don't say 'I miss you," I don't want to be in all of that again, I want to concentrate on college."

Still there are times when I just want to scream at him for disrespecting me, lying to me. Why do I want to communicate this to him when I know it won't affect him? When I know there's no point? I want to stop this. I have a chance because I don't have to see him every day in class anymore, but we've been closer for years and it is so hard. I see people moving on so fast, from one guy to another, and I wonder — am I lacking somewhere?

I was also very wrong somewhere in this relationship. He was too. And we stretched it so much that we weren't even able to salvage a friendship out of it. Neither of us gets close to people very easily, so maybe that's why we held on to each other. It's hard to imagine myself without him, and I am trying. He hopes that we remain friends for now, ending on a positive note so that when we're able to get over whatever happened, we can come back as newer, better people and end up together.

But still, I don't know if I should trust him. I don't trust him. I want guys to ask me out, but I feel scared. I feel like I'm cheating, and I feel no attraction at all. I lost my self-respect and the way I sacrificed everything and clung to him was so needy. All I want is that back — to look in the mirror and feel so good, to have him see me as the girl I was and respect me. I know I can't force anyone, but it gives me a lot of anguish to imagine our story ending up in such a bad state.

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