Are You Bisexual

Sex 101: Are Any of Us 100 % Straight?

June 1, 2010

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I discovered my bi-sexual side later on in life and, if I'm honest, it took me more than a little by surprise.

The beauty and the softness is special and I'm proud of who I am. Girls/women are more tactile than men anyway and these days I do not beleive that deep down any women/girl is 100% hetrosexual.

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57 Comments

Destati 1 year 16 weeks

"For me, it's still very much about the person, versus the gender. I think some might argue, 'well isn't that bi-sexuality?' Bisexuality still positions you as liking men and liking women. I'm coming at it from, 'I want to like the person.'" I am also Pan-sexual, and I never really looked for a man or a woman specifically, I just like who I like regardless of their gender. I am with a man, but if he was a woman, it wouldn't affect anything.

Destati 1 year 16 weeks

harri7 1 year 50 weeks

Well, going by statistics, 80% of people are attracted to the same sex, if only a tiny bit. I would however consider myself very straight. I have kissed quite a few girls, and although enjoyable, as kissing usually is, i am just not attracted to girls. I sort of wish i were attracted to girls, because it would be good fun to hook up with both sexes but i just am not interested in girls at all. So i do believe that it is possible to be 100% straight, because i'm pretty sure i am! I also agree with Natalie Love that it's annoying this notion that straight girls who don't like girls at all must be 'prudes'. No one chooses their sexuality, it's just how we're born.

2 years 8 weeks

I have been married to the same man for 22 years and very happy in my marriage. But as I told my husband before we wed, I will have special relationships with females from time to time. I have never been with any man since we wed but have had encounters with women several times but only for the sex. I love only my husband but to fulfil my sexual life I need a womans input. I am not a butch type and in fact am very feminine and that is what I seek in a woman. At present I am seeing a very beautiful married woman who has the same situation as I. It has always been for the sex but with my latest, I am feeling love for her like no other woman that I have been with. I think the vast amount of females at one time or another want to try sex with another woman. I personaly dont see anything wrong with it.

Rory1225 2 years 24 weeks

I have never found a woman attractive in a sexual or romantic way. I can see a girl and think she is pretty, but that is not the same as attraction.

teanpa 2 years 35 weeks

I suppose curiosity varies from individual to individual. However, I believe everyone is just that: curious. So are any of us truly 100% straight? Depends on the level of curiosity and how far one is willing to experiment.

teanpa 2 years 35 weeks

Bettye Wayne 2 years 36 weeks

That's interesting you mention pansexual, I never knew there was a term for it but I used to have a friend many years ago whole felt the exact same way.

gothiktenkasen 2 years 36 weeks

I don't believe that anyone is 100% gay or 100% straight. There's always a fraction that will still be attracted to someone of the same (or opposite) sex. Sometimes its based on looks and sometimes its about the total package. I have a very conservative straight girl friend that found herself questioning her sexuality when she made friends with a beautiful, smart, funny girl. Now they're dating. She's not a lesbian and she doesn't consider herself bi or gay; she's just found someone she really likes.I, personally, am pansexual which basically means that if I'm attracted to someone, I'm attracted to them, regardless of gender, sex and sexual orientation. Check it out on wiki. :)

gothiktenkasen 2 years 36 weeks

I don't believe that anyone is 100% gay or 100% straight. There's always a fraction that will still be attracted to someone of the same (or opposite) sex. Sometimes its based on looks and sometimes its about the total package. I have a very conservative straight girl friend that found herself questioning her sexuality when she made friends with a beautiful, smart, funny girl. Now they're dating. She's not a lesbian and she doesn't consider herself bi or gay; she's just found someone she really likes. I, personally, am pansexual which basically means that if I'm attracted to someone, I'm attracted to them, regardless of gender, sex and sexual orientation. Check it out on wiki. :)

Mysterious 2 years 39 weeks

I consider myself 100% straight, I have never feel any attraction for a women. I have never kiss or experience anything with any women. I look at women and I recognized when a woman is good looking, most of the time is to look up to when it comes to body or beauty.

Lucy Hush 2 years 41 weeks

I think it boils down to how open you are to new experiences. I think it's safe to say that most women have at least thought about it in some kind of capacity.

AlyCarolina 2 years 50 weeks

Well, I have has some expirience with girls just like making out and it was fun but to ME (its just my opinion) there is nothing like a good D!@%.. but if something would happen with another women I would be cool with it I guess that makes me bi... but My man is so good in bed I would not change him for another man or women.

nyxmoxie 2 years 50 weeks

I'm 100% straight, I disagree with your theory. Not everyone sees the world as you do. Speaking for myself, the only real relationship I could ever have is with my bf. I also need to have sex with a man.

Bettye Wayne 2 years 50 weeks

Maybe I should have elaborated about my friend: we'd be out and she's say something like "Look at that's chick's cleavage, I would love to bury my face in that," she would openly leer at women, she even asked me for a threesome once when she was drunk (I barely knew the guy so I declined).She told me should would be bi but the thought of eating a girl out grosses her out. I think she was insecure about her own body and projecting that insecurity onto other women. I think a lot of women are that way. I think they end up denying themselves of something they truly desire because of their insecurities.I understand where you're coming from chillchic but "Just because you have certain feelings doesn't mean everyone else does." I didn't say 'everyone,' I said 'a friend.' As in one person. As in not everyone. As in not you. Next time you feel like picking my comment apart how about you actually read what I wrote and try to understand it first, instead of lumping me in with your ONE friend who thinks all men should be gay because he is.

Bettye Wayne 2 years 50 weeks

Maybe I should have elaborated about my friend: we'd be out and she's say something like "Look at that's chick's cleavage, I would love to bury my face in that," she would openly leer at women, she even asked me for a threesome once when she was drunk (I barely knew the guy so I declined). She told me should would be bi but the thought of eating a girl out grosses her out. I think she was insecure about her own body and projecting that insecurity onto other women. I think a lot of women are that way. I think they end up denying themselves of something they truly desire because of their insecurities. I understand where you're coming from chillchic but "Just because you have certain feelings doesn't mean everyone else does." I didn't say 'everyone,' I said 'a friend.' As in one person. As in not everyone. As in not you. Next time you feel like picking my comment apart how about you actually read what I wrote and try to understand it first, instead of lumping me in with your ONE friend who thinks all men should be gay because he is.

Venus1 2 years 50 weeks

Although I appreciate this is not scientific, it's interesting that added together the bi and the curious way outnumber those who say they are 100% straight.

Gawjuslayd 2 years 50 weeks

I have had this conversation:GIRL: "Do you have a boyfriend?"ME: "No. I hate men".GIRL: "Oh so do you have a girlfriend, then?"ME: "No. I hate women too. I hate everyone equally."Oh boy, Did she shut her mouth up fast!!!

Gawjuslayd 2 years 50 weeks

I have had this conversation: GIRL: "Do you have a boyfriend?" ME: "No. I hate men". GIRL: "Oh so do you have a girlfriend, then?" ME: "No. I hate women too. I hate everyone equally." Oh boy, Did she shut her mouth up fast!!!

divinedebris 2 years 51 weeks

I feel sexuality is more fluid than people think. It's ever changing, you can be aroused or intrigued by someone who doesn't follow your normal archetype. So what? I have always considered myself "whatever" because, who cares? I'm married and completely in love with my husband but I still find women sexually and aesthetically arousing. But hey, that's just my opinion and we're not all the same.

divinedebris 2 years 51 weeks

2 years 51 weeks

I'm with french kiss, and apparently the complete opposite of everyone who commented. The idea of making out with a girl, even sleeping with a girl, does not gross me out and is on its own pretty exciting because it's different. Plus there are literally no strings attached - we both know it means nothing because we're both straight. But having a relationship with a girl? No thanks. Sorry girls, but guys have it right when they say we're crazy. And there's just something about a man that I need. In my opinion, sexual orientation is not about who you want to sleep with, so I identify as straight.

Venus1 2 years 51 weeks

Again, thank you for your responses and I would like to make a public apology to Pont Neuf for any offence caused by what I had hoped was a fun poll. I have changed a lot in recent years though and I am certainly far from 100% straight, and it took me many years to discover this. But I did not want my views to offend anyone.

Bettye Wayne 2 years 51 weeks

Chillchic my response to you keeps getting flagged. So I'll check and see if my comments make it on by tomorrow, and if not, I'll give it another try.

Bettye Wayne 2 years 51 weeks

PontNeuf I think SKG means it's tough growing up discriminated against and then it's still tough being in a relationship and having your love discriminated against.

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