Would You Rather Be the Dumper or Dumpee? Dumper or Dumpee: Who Would You Rather Be? May 28, 2010 by Tres Community 6 Save 0 Favorite 0 This post comes from the Wake Up to a Breakup group in our TrèsSugar Community. Dumper or dumpee? We interviewed a few women to see what they had to say about breaking up. Have a breakup story of your own? Post it to Wake Up to a Breakup, and check out what else is happening in the Sugar Community. Maybe we'll feature you on TrèsSugar. Love And SexRelationshipsCommunityBreakupsWake Up To A Breakup Tell your friends Link Love The best wedding Instagram experts to follow BridesWell, that's one way to pay for a $50K wedding! — GlamourA totally epic video-game-worthy wedding — The KnotMichael and Kyle's sophisticated nautical nuptials — Equally WedDo you agree with this counterintuitive marriage advice? — HuffPost WeddingsWoodland Winter wedding inspiration — 100 Layer CakeA stunning, sunwashed wedding in Big Sur — Style Me PrettyRoya and Isaiah's rustic North Carolina wedding — Green Wedding ShoesHandwritten love-letter wedding inspiration — Wedding ChicksSource: Instagram user bhldn 6 Comments Sign in to leave a comment Sign in with your account Don't have an account? Create one now! wakeuptoabreakup 3 years Thanks for all your comments! It's pretty clear that whether you are the "dumpee" or "dumper" ... break ups aren't very fun. Bettye Wayne 3 years Dumper, I suppose, but really it's all about ending it respectfully. There's a couple guys I dated and we run into each other now and we're friendly and play catch up for a minute, and there's a couple guys I would either snub or punch... one I would call the cops because of a restraining order. ManiMartinixo 3 years I'd rather dump because usually the people I dump I have few feelings for so don't feel as bad as being dumped. GlowingMoon 3 years Both are hard. bohokitty 3 years It sucks either way. I've been the one to dump pretty much all of my boyfriends. I've been dumped once and if the guy means something to you it's hard regardless of which end you end up on. I don't get why some ppl think it matters who broke up with who. totygoliguez 3 years I rather dump than be dump. See More relationships Sex Jun 29, 2013 The Not-So-Hidden Meanings of Hugs Sex Aug 13, 2008 Do Tell: Have You Ever Been With an Uncircumcised Man? Halloween Oct 30, 2013 100 Creative Halloween Couples Costume Ideas Movies Sep 06, 2013 Student-Teacher Relationships That Cross the Line TV Apr 20, 2012 Jennie Garth Opens Up About Split From Peter Facinelli TV May 29, 2012 Michelle Obama on Her Bedroom Tradition With Barack You Might Also Like Sex Sep 17, 2010 Love and Loss: Virginity Poll Results fertility Aug 30, 2007 Implanon Birth Control: Doesn't Sound Like Much Fun Bikini Jan 08, 2010 Ashley Credits Twilight For Beach Bod, Bradley Skinny-Dips, & Teri's Striptease Victoria's Secret fashion show Nov 12, 2013 5 Sexy Men Who Wake Up Next to Victoria's Secret Angels!