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Why Would Boyfriend Rather Watch Porn?

Group Therapy: It Bothers Me That My Boyfriend Watches Porn

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My boyfriend and I have been together for five years, and we have a good relationship. There is just one aspect that bothers me. We are a young couple, me in my 20s and he in his early 30s. We usually have sex three times a week. For the past week or so, we haven't had sex and I know that he has masturbated to porn.

We use condoms and we are now out of them. My boyfriend does not want me to take oral contraceptives and usually he is the one who purchases condoms. This time he hasn't bought any. He seems loving and wants to be close to me at home, so nothing unusual. I just don't understand why he would rather be treating himself to porn than having sex with me, and why he hasn't bought any condoms?

I don't know if I should talk to him about it or should I wait? It bothers me to think that my boyfriend would prefer porn to sex with me. I would appreciate any advice or suggestions on what I should do.

Thanks!

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