My ex keeps sending me questionable texts. He was the one who broke it off, all I'm doing is living life. He was the same one who said, "I don't want a relationship for a while, I don't want you to wait, (oh, I wasn't) I just want to be friends because I still care about you."
Oh, OK, but he tells me things like, "I still love you, I care for you, sometimes I think if I made a mistake or not, have you moved on? When are you coming back in town?" This is what he said today.
I playfully responded, "Oh I'm not coming back. I thought I told you that. I transferred." He responded, "No you didn't tell me. If we didn't break up would you have still transferred?" I didn't answer.
Then after that he said, "I feel like I've lost you." I was going to later reveal that I was kidding about transferring to go to a university somewhere else, but I am confused as to what he meant. I'm not sitting around and twiddling my thumbs (I wouldn't jump back into a relationship with him anyhow) but I do want to know what is going on in his head. I started to tell him that he did lose me, but thought better of it and just left it alone.