Why Does He Wait Until the Last Minute to Ask Me Out?

Group Therapy: Why Does He Ask Me Out at the Last Minute?


Updated 04/07/10 8:12 PM · Posted by · 17 comments

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I started seeing a guy a few weeks ago. We've been on three dates. He asked me out for all of them, and paid for all of them. (I always offer to pick up a round of drinks, and he accepts.)

He stays in touch during the weeks with texts and emails, and planned the first date 3 days ahead of time. But the last two weeks he hasn't asked me out till Friday morning (for a Friday night date.) Why does he wait till the last minute? If he asks me out tomorrow, should I say I'm busy?

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