Which Comes First? Sleeping in the Same Bed or Sex

February 23, 2009

Sometimes when you meet someone, there is so much passion between you that you can't help but rip each other's clothes off and hop into bed. Then other times, the relationship starts off slow and sweet, and while you may hop into bed together, you end up just cuddling under the covers. So what usually happens first when you start seeing someone?

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3 years

Sleeping in the same bed is just awkward, would much rather have sex and go and lie down somewhere else. I live with my partner and sometimes it's just not worth the moaning :-P

Lyv 4 years

ROFL!! I can't picture myself sleeping in the same bed with a boy I haven't done it with unless a natural disaster or really weird sleepover is going on. You gals crack me up, sometimes.

potterlove 4 years

Sleep first. I just want to know where his mind is when it comes to establishing comfort with each other, and pure lust.

Advah 4 years

I'm with Bella - I *love* that first sleepover.

robinlh912 4 years

Sleeping. Actually my boyfriend stayed over (but not in my bed) before we even started to go out!

soul bypass 4 years

With my very first boyfriend we shared a bed first(sleeping) but with the rest it was sex first. I guess the first one was a lot more special.

khadeekiinsz 4 years

We kissed and cuddled, we didn't sleep we just layed down and looked at each other. We were both virgins at the time, so we were very nervous to have sex anyways.

Marci 4 years

Depends on the guy the girl and the circumstances.

Autumns_Elegy 4 years

Sorta happened one the same night with us. :)

Miss Senorita 4 years

Def sleeping together first then sex.

pippins_halfling 4 years

Sleeping together before sex.

pippins_halfling 4 years

Sleeping together before sex.

macchiatolove 4 years

Sex first, or both together. It's likely that my friends and family would assume that I've had sex with someone if I'm staying at his house, so I wouldn't stay unless I was comfortable with that assumption - eg, we're dating exclusively.

macchiatolove 4 years

Sex first, or both together.It's likely that my friends and family would assume that I've had sex with someone if I'm staying at his house, so I wouldn't stay unless I was comfortable with that assumption - eg, we're dating exclusively.

0fashionqueen 4 years

I like sex, but I like the woeing before sex becomes a part of the story.

Hiding55 4 years

Sex first. Sleeping is more intimate. When you can sleep like a baby next to a guy then you know you found a good one.

ThePerfectScore 4 years

I'm pretty sure we took a nap together 1st... haha. I was dating an older guy and I was still and high School and had a curfew so I could not spend the night at his apartment ( I was 18.. so it was legal). So I decided I would not lose my virginity to him until I was allowed to stay the night! I was not going to be kicked out without the breakfast in bed treatment the next day. I would have felt too much like a whore to have had sex then have to leave before day break. So the first time I slept the whole night with him was the night I lost my virginity, but we did share a lot of naps prior to that!

princess_eab 4 years

Sleeping in the same bed - I slept in the same bed with my college boyfriend for four years before we decided to have sex...

POPSUGAR Beauty 4 years

Sleeping in the same bed. I'm slooooow and I really enjoy the innocent sleepovers. I'm all about prolonging them. Basically, I have not outgrown my teenage courtship rituals. Ha!

oohsexypenguin 4 years

Sleeping in the same bed. You can tell a lot about a relationship by how two people share a bed.

SusanTeufel 4 years

I slept with my husband in the same bed a few times before we were married, but there was sex first seeing he still lived with his parents, and he couldn't stay at my place xD