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Where to Meet Singles in 2013

7 Places to Meet Singles in 2013

We're happy to present this excerpt of a story from one of our favorite sites, YourTango. Today we're checking out hot spots for meeting singles.

Do you ever sit around wondering why you haven't been on a date in ages? You think, how come my dating life isn't going anywhere? I am willing to bet that if you got off your cute little butt and put some effort into meeting other singles, you would find some dates. And seeing as it's the New Year, consider making a commitment to go out and meet more singles as one of your New Year's resolutions.

For starters, get out your calendar and schedule at least three activities or events per month. To ensure the greatest chance of getting actual dates, choose at least two events that are specifically geared toward singles. Many people make the mistake of attending a group only once, but you'll want to frequent the same group over and over again so people begin to recognize you. Finally, go alone so you will have to get out of your shell and meet more people.

Here are some places to meet other single people:

  1. Go to a bar or pub. One of the easiest places to meet people is at a neighborhood bar or pub. Do not have more than one drink. In fact, it would be better to sip a club soda so you are totally present. Witness your fears and inhibitions as they arise. Do you go for the person you are most attracted to or do shy away? Do you wait to be noticed by others or do you send out signals that you are interested? Are you judging people and looking for their flaws? What if you looked around the room and focused on what is attractive about each person instead?
  2. Join a dance class. Salsa and ballroom dancing classes are an especially good way to meet people. When you get moving, you naturally are in a better mood. Dancing is also a great way to connect with your body and your sensuality. A metaphor for relationships, dancing teaches men how to take the lead, and it helps women feel more comfortable letting a man take the lead. Dancing will also get you out of your head and help you flow with the moment, a skill that comes in handy when you're on an actual date.
  3. Go for a hike. You can join a group like Sierra Club Singles or go alone and see if you can engage other people on the trail. Hiking is a great way to combine exercising with meeting other people. For some people, parties and meet-up groups can feel too sterile. Doing an activity can create an environment where meeting people feels more natural. Start by just smiling and saying hello to people. Eventually, you might say, "Mind if I walk with you awhile?" If you like someone, you might ask if they would like to meet again for another hike.
  4. For the rest of the article, head to YourTango: Seven Places to Meet Singles in 2013

    — Lisa Shield

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