I used to watch porn with my ex. But I haven't watched any w/ my current beau.

He's never asked me to watch porn with him, but I've asked him! The results were promising.
Surprisingly I'm not a fan of him watching it alone, though. Just something I need to get over.

I ♥ watching porn!

When my bf and I first got together he swore that he wasn't a fan, but I have swayed him! He likes it now, and sometimes we do it watch together and then get all horny and yes you know what happens after that!

I like to watch it with my husband. It definitely can have it's benefits!!!!

My boyfriend and I have a growing collection and yes it is fun to watch and mimic!

I have watched porn with guys I dated in the past, but I have never watched it with my husband. I know he has some- but that was before our computer crashed, I think its probably gone now.

I enjoy watching it with my boyfriend.. sometimes moreso than him, I think!

Strangely enough, he never really watched porn that much until he met me and I persuaded him - haha (hopefully, it doesnn't backfire on me in the long run!!!!) haha

I don't mind porn, but it doesn't do it for me at all. I know my husband watches it alone which is fine by me! I'd watch it with him if he asked, but I get much more turned on by a sexy movie.

Hehe, watching porn together is fun! Even bad porn, though it may not get either of us going, at least it's good for a laugh.

i feel bad being so closed minded but im so digusted by it. i love my boyfriend with all my heart but he knows i hate it and still watches it. i think its my fault because i have been in a sexual slump. i used to like watching it before he and i were together but now it freaks me out being so in love and having him think of other girls. how can i become okay with porn when watching with him is out of the question.

I've done it before with the hubby...

i cant get over the feeling that the girls in porn are not enjoying themselves! On drugs, really need the money or molested at a young age (or all of the above). i really don't think they are having fun. i cant have fun watching that. i just cant stop thinking "what happend to them to get in porn"

don't get me wrong... i fully believe in, to each there own.

i just cant do it myself.

I watched porn whislt having sex with my guy... but he kept blocking the tv and I got mad haha... but it was a nice laugh for us both!

Me and man definitely watch porn together. It either gets us going at eachother or makes for a good laugh (there is some horrible porn out there).

I *really* like porn. I watch it with my husband and without him.
We have had many enjoyable days and nights watching and acting along. It's great fun!

I think it can be dangerous. It's an easy turn-on. Men (or women) don't need to put any effort in. Sexual pleasure becomes merely entertainment via strangers, and when you're in a committed relationship it may serve to distance you rather than bring you together. Even when you watch together and then share intimacy, what brought you together and got you interested was someone else. If you remove porn from the equation, the focus becomes each other.

aujah - i've never thought about it that way. You're right.

Havana_Banana,

ALL things in moderation. Of course we realize that it's a problem if a couple can't even get into it without starting up the porn first, but that's not what this topic is about.

Does this have something to do with your own personal experiences?

My guy had watched some porn in his teens but that's it. He doesn't do it anymore and I wouldn't be comfortable with him watching it alone. Even though I'm against it, we did watch a porn movie once together just for the heck of it and it didn't do anything for us though we did laugh a lot and switched it off mid way. I think porn can be dangerous like Sarita51 said. I just view sex as something pure between two people who love each other. But that's just my opinion....to each his own.

aujuh, I feel the same way as you. I just feel bad for people in porn. I really hate the whole concept of it, but I try to accept it. Watching it is a turn off for me, not a turn on. I can't get turned on seeing something I know is fake. I can't play along with the fantasy when I realize their reality must be so terrible. Plus, all the people I've seen in videos are so dirty looking and nasty. And I hate the stereotypes and the way the men touch women! Also, just the camera angles and sex positions are so crude. I've definitely enjoyed reading certain scenes in novels, but I think that's because so much is left to my imagination, it's not real people, they're characters with depth, and there's none of the issues I've already mentioned. Personally, I hate porn and would be fine with never seeing any again. I understand why it is appealing to so many people and how it could be exciting for some couples, but it'll never do any good for me.

love it!

love it also--- totally a turn on to watch it together and play along =)

I don't mind porn as long as the girl is not grotesquely skinny with gross fake boobs. But I am not into watching anal sex scenes, which many guys seem to like watching, I think the girl just looks like she is in a lot of pain and trying to hide it. Porn can be arousing, but I would rather fantasize. It is good to watch with your partner once in a while if you want something different, but I really don't love it. I don't understand why guys like it so much, it's like they don't have any imagination at all!

My boyfriend watched porn in high school to help him get off, but now that we're together, he doesn't find it necessary to watch it. He suggested we rent a video, but we got through the opening scene, and we both got bored, so we ended up neglecting the movie. It's supposed to be a huge hit, "Pirates," but never having seen a porno, I couldn't stop giggling. My boyfriend also kept mentioning how it seemed more like they were attacking each other than pleasuring...a lot of fervor, I guess, in their techniques. It was funny, though.

I also have respect for porn stars...There are lots of girls that open their legs for anyone and for free, but if you make money for your services, it makes you nothing more than a business woman, and I can't hate on that.

Occasionally. It doesn't have much of presence in our sex life or life rather but when we do watch it, it's pretty exciting. Hehe.

I prefer to read it. I'm not totally against watching it, although we haven't in a very long time.

aujuh and swen you two make so much sense thank you

sarita, your post got deleted because I reported you for spamming. I looked at that website that you claim to be "informative," when what it does is attempt to guilt people into buying VERY expensive self-help "services."

The website claims to be Christian, but it's a total scam. Tell me, what kind of person would try to SELL salvation? If these crooks really wanted to help people, they'd make their miracle methods available to the public.

So please, stop helping these scammers do their dirty work by advertising that website.

I love porn. I don't have a boyfriend so I'm solo in the watching department for now.

by far the BIGGEST MISTAKE women make about porn is thinking their SO (significan others) are watching porn and thinking about somebody else...

LADIES while watching porn your man/woman is most likely thinking about the real thing...YOU!...and if is not you is probably just faceless....is just physical gratification.

IMO

I have def watched porn with my bf! haha
It does have beneifts.
I'd much rather him watch it with me then watch it alone. But its better than him going out & doing it in real life.

Neither of us really watch porn but I wouldn't mind watching it together. Honestly, I'd be upset if he were watching it without me though.

Kinda relates to the do you have a tv in your bedroom question. Of course!

I'm solo now, but I used to watch it with my ex. It was good at first, but like with many other things, my ex couldn't do it in moderation. So he reached a point where whenever he wanted to get laid, instead of you know, turning me on or trying in any way shape or form, he would pop a video in and look at me expectantly.. and then get pissed when he got no response. Eventually I had to put a ban on the porn. LMAO

When I found my boyfriend's porn, I felt uncomfortable about it, and suggested we watch it together with hopes that I'd feel better about the whole thing. He thought the idea was out of the question, I think it would embarrass him. Him not wanting to watch it with me only made me feel worse, though!

It can be lots of fun, and helpful to your sex life. You can each talk about what things in the porn arouse you (or disgust you, as the case may be), and maybe try some of those things that you haven't gotten around to trying yet (or make a point NOT to do the disgusting things).

Also, porn can be hilarious in its ridiculousness.

i really like watching porn with my boyfriend. it is great to attempt to mimic and if you mess up a little bedroom laughter doesn't go unnappreciated.

Its OK but its not our thing. If he really got into it, I might have some concerns but right now its not a big part of what we do. I know he looks at porn on the internet, but if that were a reason for breaking up we would all be single.