At What Age Do You Expect To/Did You Have Your First Child? February 6, 2007 by DearSugar 51 Save 0 Favorite 0 24 or Under 25 - 27 28 - 30 31 - 34 35 + Love And SexDear Poll Tell your friends Link Love Men reveal their biggest sex regretsYourTangoA woman documents what it's like to be 35 and single — The Frisky13 perfect responses to street harassment — HuffPost WomenA very naughty Christmas story — Cosmopolitan5 things you need for an awkward ex encounter — xoJaneWomen with better body image have better relationships — HowAboutWeShould office romances be totally off-limits? — HelloGigglesThe difference between "booty call" and "one-night stand" — CollegeCandy 51 Comments Sign in to leave a comment Sign in with your account Don't have an account? Create one now! mandiesoh 6 years i voted 28-30 but i dont think i'd ever give birth. heh pinkandgreenj 6 years A few months ago, I would have said before 30. Now, I am 28 and just signed a HUUUGGGGEEE mortgage (for a house that will be ridiculously expensive to furnish) and private school is upwards of $26K a year for HS (less early on but around $15K then), so I will be waiting a bit longer since I want to stay home with my kids, at least part-time. Basically, I need to work to save up more $$$ first to give them what I want to without putting the whole burden on my wonderful husband. flutterpie 6 years oops, i forgot to add this. the one thing i dont want to do is set myself up for failure. i know so many women who freak out if they do not have a child by a certain age. they settle for stupid men, get into bad marriages or as one girl i know did, try to commit suicide. its really sad when i see women put all their worth into whether or not they have children. life is too short rush something so precious flutter-the one, the only, accept no substitutions flutterpie 6 years i seriously thought i would have my first by the time i was 25 and now im 27. i would like to have at least the first one down by the time im 30, the longer i wait the more fear i have. my mom had a hysterectomy at 30 and both my mom and her my sister miscarried their first child. flutter-the one, the only, accept no substitutions controlledspin 6 years I am going to turn 27 this year, and I want to get pregnant around then or shortly after. I can't wait anymore! Shelleybean 6 years I was 25 and 26...having the kids young and close together was fabulous. Done! Over! Bring on the rest of my life! lovedirt 6 years Pregnant with my first at 17, gave birth at 18. Gave birth to my 2nd at 21. I'm 25 now, my kids are both out of diapers, bottles, temper tantrums and needing my attention every second of everyday. I'm glad I did it when I did, though it was unplanned. Having kids young is not for everybody though, it just happened for me and I was able to make it work. SunshineDaydream 6 years I'm waiting until 30-35 because: --I'll be done with my Peace Corps assignment --I will have both of mt Doctoral degree's by then --I'll be financially stable enough to world travel the kid, and school them at the most prestigious world schools --I should be done "partying" by then Hopefully!!!) And it doesn't matter about my "clock ticking", because I come from an adoption family, and I have always known that I was adopting vs. having my own biological child. Blessed2x 6 years Married when I was 19 yr olds, first child when I was 25, second child when I was 30. Jessamyn 6 years Oh and I got married when I was 21. We'll be married for 7 years by May this year superjules 6 years I hope I didn't come across like 20 years old is the perfect age for everyone to give birth. I was not married and it was probably not the best timing. It did turn out to be a miracle for me. When I suggested people have kids "young", I meant before 40. I hope I don't offend anyone who had kids after 40. There is a reason I feel this way. Jessamyn 6 years I was 24 when I got my first Baby. The next followed last October, when I was 27. A good age - for me druscilla 6 years Me personally I've never had the desire to have kid's.Especially with some recent event's that I found out.This guy who I've known for 7 year's who I thought was here for me and only me,I find out had a girlfriend I never even knew about.He was playing both of us without the other ever knowing about it.Well all this time he's been hanging out with both of us.Here to find out that me and him had sex not too long ago,and this other chick is 9 month's pregnant.Needless to say I'm not too happy with all of this!If I wouldn't have accidently come across this information I would have never known,he obviously wasn't going to tell me.I hope this baby make's his life a living hell! bugness 6 years Having me young didn't stop my parents from taking vacations. They went on one alone but after that, they always took me. They just raised me well, and the three of us got along REALLY well. Sometimes they would bring my grandma so that they could go do their own thing. My dad still says that he feels odd going and doing vacations and cruises without me. -Bug Imabeliever 6 years It's funny cause if you had asked me at 16 I would have said by 24.. at 24 if you had asked me I would have said around 28. But I didn't get married until I was 30 and then I think we started too soon by accident. It would have been nice to go on a vacation or two more together..maybe a cruise before the kids came along. It will be years before I will be willing to be away from them that long and even then its not the same..in the back of my mind I will always be worrying and not as relaxed as before. LOL! In the end I had them at 33 and 35. there is no magic time or age. Everyone is different.. the most important thing is that hopefully you have a child when the time is right for you. ____________________________________________________________ World was on fire and no one could save me but you. t0xxic 6 years I got pregnant with my first son @ 18 and had him by 19. Im now 21 and just had my second son 2 weeks ago. I love being a young mom, and I dont feel like Ive missed anything. To each there own when they choose to have kids. Only the "mom" knows when your ready. ------ Jan 23rd 1:08 Am Weighing 7lbs and 7 oz and 19 inches tall!! Welcome to the world Nicky! POPSUGAR Beauty 6 years I thought that I would definitely be under 30. Oh well :) bugness 6 years I'm 22, and while things have yet to be determined, I really want to have my kids before I'm 30. My parents were 21 and 22 when I was born, and having grandparents around into adulthood, it's nice to get a sense of where you come from and embrace it. And when I'm 30? My dad will only be 52. Pretty awesome, I think. I told the man-of-my-life that I expect to be married by 26 and have kids around 27/28. I think that gives us lots of time to grow up the rest of the way together and have fun. -Bug rubialala 6 years I always thought I'd have my kids young and I had my one and only when I was 23. medicgirl 6 years I thought I would have had a child by now, but as I've discovered life has a funny way of throwing curve balls straight at ya. So with a little luck and a prayer I will be a mum by the time I am 35...so I have a few years left to go :) lovekailua 6 years 31-34...i wont be out of law school until i'm 30..yikes! we'll see My Opinion 6 years Congratulations Tina_Marie :D Masqueraded_Angel 6 years Correction: Pregnant at 19, gave birth at 20. Masqueraded_Angel 6 years I totally agree with superjules...and I had my son at 19. I plan on having another one...before 30. ESPNgirl 6 years considering i used to be an elementary school teacher, i really have no desire to have children (i'm 24, going to be 25 in 2 months); however, if i were to have a child, i'm thinking somewhere b/w 28 & 30. My boyfriend, who i love dearly, does not want any kids, so if he's the one, he'll probably just go and have a vasectomy (he actually said he'd consider it, which really surprised me!). So my guess is the answer will be no children. You Might Also Like Sex Sep 17, 2010 Love and Loss: Virginity Poll Results Bikini Jan 08, 2010 Ashley Credits Twilight For Beach Bod, Bradley Skinny-Dips, & Teri's Striptease Heidi Klum Nov 16, 2007 12th Annual Victoria's Secret Fashion Show Poll May 12, 2011 Would You Go to an Adult Prom?