Want More Alone Time With My Boyfriend

"I Feel Like My Boyfriend Chooses His Friends Over Me"

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For the four months that I have been dating this guy, we've hardly had any alone time. Every time we go out, his group of friends always shows up and it's as if he forgets that I'm there. A month ago he moved almost two hours away, and recently, I was excited to know that he was coming to visit. I was brainstorming what we could do together until he texted me and said: "Me and the guys are going bowling tomorrow night." In other words, he'd already made plans without asking me what I wanted to do.

I can only remember being alone with him three times. Sometimes I feel like he chooses his friends over me. He leaves on Sunday, so for those two days it will be me, him, and his friends. Not once have we talked about what we see ourselves doing in 10 years or what our relationship status will be. I know that he misses his friends, but I wanted him to realize that I'm his girlfriend and I miss him too.

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