No one likes insecurity. It can be a real downer in a relationship and oftentimes the smallest little things end up becoming blow-out fights when one person is more insecure than the other. While insecurity can be a total turn off, is the flip side any better? I happen to like confident men but others find cockiness to be a less than attractive quality. So ladies, what I want to know is: Do you think arrogance is a turn on or a turn off?