True Confession — I Don't Want to Be Alone on Valentine's Day

February 11, 2009

Weigh in and tell us if you forgive or not forgive this True Confession.

"I'm going to break up with my boyfriend the day after Valentine's Day. I don't want to be alone this year and I just don't have the heart to do it sooner. Can I be forgiven for being so selfish?"

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48 Comments

elistic 4 years

Break up is a hard thing to go through, and you're going to give him hope just because you don't want to be alone on a day meant for romance. Selfish just doesn't cut it does it?

frieddumpling 4 years

gawd if ur gonna be a b!tch and do that...at least wait TWO WEEKS...the day after? karma will bite u back one way or another...not forgive!

Autumns_Elegy 4 years

Dude, who does want to be alone! It's better that you're doing it after because you'll just make it a truly shoddy valentines day for the both of you. Just don't tell him you love him and drop him the next day.

Autumns_Elegy 4 years

Dude, who does want to be alone! It's better that you're doing it after because you'll just make it a truly shoddy valentines day for the both of you.Just don't tell him you love him and drop him the next day.

ohbaby7 4 years

terrible! Just terrible.

ohbaby7 4 years

terrible! Just terrible.

EvilDorkGirl 4 years

Maybe I'm cold-hearted, but why not break up with him on v-day? Go out, have your date, and while you're at dinner just break the news.

angelinamichael 4 years

Ha. Are you serious? You'd postpone a relationships demise to save face and go out to dinner on some overly commercialized holiday? Are you kidding me. He should leave you first.

babysoftpink 4 years

wait, does he know that you are going to break up with him. If he knows and accepts it and willing to spend v-day with you. I say "go for it" there is nothing wrong with this.. everyone has her own expectation and moral standard. Also, I would recommend a sex marathon to get the last bit of what's left. (remember, not a love making marathon, just sex marathon), the next morning when you get up, be polite, tell him this is over and walk out with your dignity and never look back. Best of luck to you and enjoy this one last v-day with your soon to be ex-lover. :)

Cher412 4 years

You should think about the other person too. What goes around, comes around.

Miss Senorita 4 years

Nope not forgiven that is beyond selfish and if you don't love/like him then stop wasting your time and especially his time. End it now.

emalove 4 years

That's pretty pathetic...sorry.

Marni7 4 years

o man..well remember, Karma is a b*tch!

ylovely 4 years

It is forgivable but it's selfish to do the other person.You have to think about the other person above yourself. It' not fair, you have to let go.

aka Daria 4 years

see...she's probably one of those people who NEEDED that "surviving vday when youre single" posts, everyone was bitching about. to the OP...you're a selfish bitch. That is all.

aka Daria 4 years

see...she's probably one of those people who NEEDED that "surviving vday when youre single" posts, everyone was bitching about.to the OP...you're a selfish bitch. That is all.

RockAndRepublic 4 years

Misery loves company. Grow up, please!

dm8bri 4 years

I had friends do this in middle school. Hopefully you're older than that and can see how it makes you look immature and shallow. But, hey, if you're cool with that than by all means!

bluestar 4 years

This is effing stupid. Are you really THAT scared to be alone on Valentine's day?

L7amiguita 4 years

Sure, go ahead and do that...and when the same thing happens to you in the future, I hope its 10 times worse for you. You're only using him and that shouldn't be forgiven.

rellicDragon 4 years

Forgive .. but wait a few days until after valentines .. so that he doesn't feel like all the money he spent or whatever whet down the drain

SusanTeufel 4 years

Not forgive. I mean, why remember a holiday that's about love with someone you don't? In retrospect, no one wants dumped on V-day. Do it now, or wait longer - Using him and dumping him...Ugh.

princess_eab 4 years

Not forgive - you're going to be miserable anyway - do you just want your candy and flowers?

lickety split 4 years

could you maybe wait a week rather than day. and don't tell him that you were planning it, don't make him feel used and make him distrustful of other women.

urban chic 101 4 years

so not cool

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