Sunday Confessional: She'll Ditch Husband After Kids Grow Up

October 4, 2009

We're scouring the juicy (but anonymous!) secrets posted on Truu Confessions and letting you weigh in. This week, a confessor admits that she is planning on leaving her husband for another man.

"Dear Boyfriend, I'm falling in love with you. I hope you know that. Just another decade or so until our kids are old enough that we can leave our spouses."

Do you think this is a big deal?

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dikke kus 3 years 32 weeks

In just another decade? Maybe unless you get hit by a car.

3 years 32 weeks

it's sad that she thinks once the kids are grown it won't effect them. my parents split after i graduated high school. it still had a negative impact on my life. if you're staying together for the kids. quit acting like you're being unselfish and blaming your cowardice on the kids and just leave.

vmruby 3 years 33 weeks

Wow what a great plan .......:oy: You are going to end up being dumped by both guys long before the ten years are up which is exactly what your selfish azz deserves.....

vmruby 3 years 33 weeks

Wow what a great plan .......:oy:You are going to end up being dumped by both guys long before the ten years are up which is exactly what your selfish azz deserves.....

mkls6044 3 years 33 weeks

Even if they do "stay married until the kids are old enough to leave our spouses," there will still be horrible ramifications for the children! Not only do they have to go through a divorce, which is never easy, but they will have watched their parents bad marriage for 10 years and THEN the divorce. Great idea. Sometimes its too bad these "confessions" are anonymous!!

3 years 33 weeks

The poster is mistaken if she thinks this guy isn't going to be tired of her in 10 years. That being said, why the hell do you people get married?? Instead of reciting vows that are clearly lies, why don't you just tell the person that you'll love them until someone better comes along? At least you'll both know what you're in for. Bunch of selfish jerks.

care0531 3 years 33 weeks

So much can happen in 10 years. If you are not invested in your marriage it is not fair to anyone involved to let it drag on for 10 years. RIDICULOUS!

tlsgirl 3 years 33 weeks

*sshole.

tlsgirl 3 years 33 weeks

*sshole.

TidalWave 3 years 33 weeks

Obviously she's not going to stay true to her boyfriend for 10 years.......

gigilgirl 3 years 33 weeks

You have infidelity issues. >:)

gigilgirl 3 years 33 weeks

You have infidelity issues. >:)

sweetmargot26 3 years 33 weeks

So they are staying with their spouses because their children are not grown adults yet. But what are you teaching your children about staying true to yourself by lying to your husband/wife and being unfaithful for 10 years. This may work in the movies, but real life is a lot more complicated.

Hiding55 3 years 33 weeks

I doubt her marraige or her affair will survive 10 years. I don't know how miserable her marraige is or if she is married to a terrible man. You never know what someone's private life holds. She should physically leave the marraige since she has already checked out emotionally. I don't believe in staying together for the kids.

3 years 33 weeks

Uh, unless your spouses catch on first and file for divorce and your kids find out your dirty little secret and don't want to have a relationship with you or your new bf/gf because you've been cheating on their other parent. Great plan, only a decade or so, nothing can go wrong. You won't ruin your kids life by getting divorced. Actually, if you divorce now you may have a chance of being friendly with your ex and making things easier on your kids than if you dump your spouse later for this guy and everyone hates you. If you are already emotionally gone from this marriage, then your spouse is probably miserable. Why do this to him for a decade? That's really cruel and selfish.

medenginer 3 years 33 weeks

I'm sure your children would rather see you both divorced and happy then miserable together. I recommend counseling to try to find solutions to your problems. I also think you should either make your marriage work or move on. A decade of limbo isn't fair to anybody involved. There's always the chance your husband might be cheating on you and you have no idea.

MissSushi 3 years 33 weeks

She says, I'm falling in love with you... that doesn't even mean its a solid thing, and I think its just an excuse to be honest. She's already checked out of her relationship and is off doing whatever she wants. I really hope she comes clean, though incredibly unlikely, or that her husband finds out and can leave her. Planning on leaving a bad relationship as soon as you are financially able is WAY different then using someone for 10 years and lying to EVERYONE in your life. Every single person in your life is going to realize that you've been lying to them, cheating on him, and haven't been in a commited honest relationship for the last 10 years. Hopefully he finds out not only that shes cheating on him, but the complete lack of respect she has for him and their marriage and how flippant she's doing it. Enough so he doesnt go back.

juicebox07 3 years 33 weeks

I would also like to add that I find it funny she thinks she's still going to be with her husband for 10 more years. He could always leave her first.

snow flake 3 years 33 weeks

Wow...this is just horrible! I feel especially bad for the husband, whom she'll be leading on for 10 YEARS! I can't imagine this is terribly good for the children either; it will no doubt be just as upsetting 10 years down the road. Apparently she is doing this for the children's sake, but just seems selfish to me.

juicebox07 3 years 33 weeks

My boyfriends parents almost split up a couple years ago when he was around 19. I saw how devastated he was about it, although his parents ended up working it out. Those kids are going to be upset no matter what age they are. This woman has something very wrong with her.

chloe bella 3 years 33 weeks

From the experience of some of my friends growing up, it seems like people who "stay married for the kids" aren't really ever fooling anyone. Kids in general are more perceptive than adults think. I had friends growing up who spent YEARS waiting for their parents to announce their divorce, because it's obvious when two people are no longer in love and/or when one person has already checked out. She's just prolonging the agony for her kids.

GlowingMoon 3 years 33 weeks

Truthfully, I'm indifferent about this. Basically, she's staying married until the kids are raised. I think she deserves SOME credit, as some parents abandon their marriage (and sometimes the children) when the children are young. I think that's even more reprehensible. There are many people who are stay married "for the kids." She's doing the same thing. The only difference is that she has a 10-year exit strategy. Also, it seems that raising the children is the only bond between her and her husband. It's just the sad truth. To clarify, I do NOT support her behavior. She is no Wife of The Year. However, with that said, I don't know what her marriage is like. I think I see both sides, and so I'm on the fence on this one.

GlowingMoon 3 years 33 weeks

Truthfully, I'm indifferent about this. Basically, she's staying married until the kids are raised. I think she deserves SOME credit, as some parents abandon their marriage (and sometimes the children) when the children are young. I think that's even more reprehensible.There are many people who are stay married "for the kids." She's doing the same thing. The only difference is that she has a 10-year exit strategy.Also, it seems that raising the children is the only bond between her and her husband. It's just the sad truth.To clarify, I do NOT support her behavior. She is no Wife of The Year. However, with that said, I don't know what her marriage is like.I think I see both sides, and so I'm on the fence on this one.

finzup 3 years 33 weeks

OK, if you're in a dead end marriage and have tried to make it work but can't, have the balls to start the divorce proceedings right then and there. STOP the affair until the divorce is final. In what world is a 10 year affair, followed by a divorce when the kids turn 18 considered good???

finzup 3 years 33 weeks

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