"About seven years ago I found some gay porn links on my husband's computer. No straight porn. I confronted him and we fought and cried. He apologized and denied that he was gay. I have tried to let it go because he is a good person and a great father, but I keep thinking that maybe he is hiding something. I don't feel like I can suggest counseling without him being mortified and hurt that I have been harboring resentment."
Do you think this confession is a big deal?