After a couple of years, you and your boyfriend have found yourselves in the comfort zone of your relationship. For the most part things are good, and you enjoy feeling settled, but you get the feeling he doesn’t. His behavior makes it seem like he’s having some insecurities about the relationship. You love him, but he’s driving you nuts. Would it be worse if . . .
This: He's gone from being doting to completely obsessive and overappreciative? When he’s with you, you can’t even sigh without him making a fuss about getting you something or making sure you're OK.
Or . . .
That: Suddenly it seems like half the time you’re with him he forgets you’re even there? He’s still affectionate, but he seems to be caught up in his own world and pays absolutely no attention to you.