You've been broadening your horizons when it comes to the guys you date because everyone says you're too picky. Things have been going better than you would have expected on your second date with a guy that you met through a friend. You actually end up back at his apartment one night, just talking, and as you guys begin to connect more, things start to get steamy. You encounter a Charlotte from Sex and the City moment when he pulls out a surprise move. Would it be worse if . . .
This: Just as the make-out session was getting more intense, he started to rotate between trusting his tongue to the farthest corners of your throat and licking your face?
Or . . .
That: You end up in an awesome sex session, but just as he's orgasming, he starts screaming and shouting expletives that would make even Samantha blush?