Should I Tell Him I'm a Virgin?

"Should I Tell Him I'm Inexperienced?"

March 5, 2013

by Laura Marie Meyers 3

This question is from a Group Therapy post in our community. Add your advice in the comments!

Would a guy who's had quite a bit of experience, and has been in several long-term relationships, ever want to be with a 26-year-old virgin who hasn't been in a relationship? How and when should I tell a guy that I'm not experienced?

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3 Comments

Sherrilee 10 weeks 3 days

I don't see my comment so I'll comment again. I think a man would appreciate an inexperienced girl if he is sensitive to her. I would let him knowit soon. It wouldn' tbe fair to him not to let him know. Let him know your feelings so the two of you can talk it out.

GTCB 10 weeks 3 days

As a guy, the answer to your first question is yes. The answer to your second question is 'when the time is right'. I know, that's not that helpful, but perhaps you can tell him when you're removing each other's clothes for the first time. Trust me, it's not a turn-off. Not at all. And if it is for him then you'll have learned something very important about his attitude and tolerance.

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candyb5238 10 weeks 3 days

OMG! You and I were on the same boat a year ago. I was 25 and still a virgin, with a guy with more than enough experience. I guess it depends on how long you guys have been together. It's not information that I personally shared with every guy I dated, but with my ex I just blurted it out one day. I suppose it's because I saw myself going "there" with him. Honesty is always the best policy. He freaked out at first, but he liked me so it wasn't a problem. He was very patient and respectful. And if a guy can't handle it, then it's HIS loss.