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Should I Move In With My Boyfriend?

Group Therapy: To Move In or Not?

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Recently my boyfriend of around a year and I started talking about him moving into my house (I own it). My roommate just happens to be my best friend, and when I asked her about it she reinstated the fact that she doesn't really like him, and she thinks it's a bad idea, and hopes that we never end up together. My roommate has a boyfriend as well; he lives close to her job and so for 6 out of the 7 days a week she stays at his place. We hang out about once a week now, although we still communicate everyday, I still feel close to her but not a close as we were when we were both single (go figure).

Well I decided I wasn't ready for him to move in and told him we should put it off for a little, he was very understanding and agreed. We decided to just keep things the way they were. This was about 3 weeks ago now, and I have not stopped thinking about it since then. I have put a lot of thought into it and I really want him to move in now. I have asked friends and parents and almost everyone I know about this and I keep getting mixed reviews, but do you think it's a bad idea if my boyfriend moves in with me?

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