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Should I Get an Abortion?

Group Therapy: Should I Get an Abortion?

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I'm 26, boyfriend is 29. We have been on and off for about 4.5 years. We recently broke up and he told me that it was over. However, he asked again if we can continue being with each other shortly thereafter. I agreed (he wanted to break up because he was so busy).

That whole incident was a month and a half ago, I'm late on my period and took a test and it came out faintly positive. I have a follow up appointment with my dx next week. He's my man so I told him about it, he said that he doesn't believe me (1st pregnancy scare in 4.5 years with him). He tells me I'm "sick and should get evaluated" and that nothing has changed from his whole "let's break up speech." Now I'm an intelligent woman, we both had a mutual understanding that we would get back together. He even took me out to dinner to commemorate the evening and we had a long talk about it. It was clear that we were "back together."

Back to present day, last night, I didn't fight for "us" since he was cold about lying to me and not supportive about the whole probable pregnancy issue. I said my goodbye and he said (and this is verbatim) "I have said numerous goodbyes . . . but yea . . . and I'd still bang you if you weren't so off of it." Strange.

I'm debating abortion as I had just lost my job and cannot take care of this child by myself. I'm entirely too emotionally strained to care what this man wants. I just need your opinion, because I want this to be definitely over, and I'm exhausted over the arguing.

Thanks! For the input and please no harsh comments, I have gone through a lot.

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