STD From My Ex-Boyfriend

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My ex-boyfriend and I broke up about three years ago. He lives in Chicago and I live in New Jersey.  He broke up with me to live in Chicago with his new girlfriend.

We were engaged for two years and together for about four and a half. I still care about him very much so and am completely embarrassed to say that he and I still have sex (he comes down to Jersey once to twice a month to visit family and me).  I got some scary results from my Pap smear and it came out that I was HPV positive (the high risk one). The doctor said that I have cancerous cells.

I did a lot of research and I asked him to ask his girlfriend whether or not she has abnormal Pap smears and he completely flipped out on me and told me he can't be friends with me anymore. I'm devastated.  To make things worse, the doctor called days later and stated that he had made a mistake and that I'm actually OK.

I told my ex this but he still doesn't want to be friends with me. Stated that I placed him in an uncomfortable position. He isn't answering my phone calls or text messages. I don't know what to do.

Should I leave him alone and respect his wishes or try?

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