Phone Sex Phobia

Dear Sugar
My boyfriend lives across the state. Since it's about a four hour drive door to door, we don't get to see each other as much as we would like to. Usually it averages out to be almost every other weekend. Occasionally he asks me for phone sex, but I try as best I can to avoid it if possible.

I don't know why, but I am so shy about it. I love my boyfriend and feel totally comfortable around him, but I am just not very confident talking dirty. To be honest, if he really wants it, I usually have to down a couple of drinks to get loosened up. Do you have any suggestions for me? Whimpy Willemena

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Dear Whimpy Willemena
If it's just occasional, then give the guy what he wants. If you need a few drinks to loosen up, so be it. Be a sport - wouldn't you rather him be calling you for sex than hanging out at the local watering hole with a bunch of random girls?

Rent a porn and listen to how the people talk to each other. Try it once and see how you feel. Of course it's totally embarrassing, but there's women out there who claim dirty talk is empowering. Give it a go.

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