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Group Therapy: I've Fallen For Someone I've Never Met

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This guy started talking to me via Facebook a couple months ago. (I know how retarded this sounds but bear with me.) At first I wasn't interested, but eventually he opened up to me and I liked what I found. We text every single day and he is always saying things to me that are comforting. (And no, they are not just schemes to get in my pants. This guy is sincere.) Some things he would say would be . . . "I haven't met you but I have heard and seen you. There's something about your demeanor that is really appealing and I can't get it out of my head." or "I want to say that I miss you but I can't haha." even "You ruined other girls for me :)" and then there's "I'll fix your heart if you fix my mind." along with many, many other things. We are both sexually and emotionally attracted to each other, which is strange because we never even met. We have mutual friends though so I know he's not some old man haha.

The thing is, I'm just really scared to meet him. I know that he has built me into this amazing person, and I don't think I can live up to her. I'm completely different in person. I like this kid a lot but something is off . . . I'm not sure what it is. He is everything I want in a guy. He is modest, honest and even an abstract thinker. I'm not really sure why I am posting this anyway really . . . I guess I need reassurance that it is not so corny to find a great guy through Facebook and actually build up a set of feelings for a someone I never met.

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