Obsessive Ex-Girlfriends

Group Therapy: How Do I Handle His Ex-Girlfriends?

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I'm having some issues about my boyfriend's ex-girlfriends. They are definitely more fashionable and "hotter" than I am but I know they weren't very intelligent and that my boyfriend chose to end those relationships. He also told me about some of their ridiculous behaviors like how one lied to him and said she was pregnant just to get him back in her life. The problem is they are all still very obsessed with him, showing up at all of his usual bar spots and messaging his brother and friends to find out what is going on with him. Crazy right? Well then why is he Facebook stalking them?!

We have been unofficially dating for a year now. Officially it has been about 8 months. He is pretty serious about us and had me meet all of his extended family (which he has never done with a girl before) but I was using his computer the other day before our vacation and I saw that he looks at his ex's profiles quite often on Facebook. I'm talking combing through a lot of their pictures maybe 3 times a month.

If he broke up with them and said how crazy and insane the relationships were. And if he is making things very serious with us, why is he Facebook stalking them so much?!

It is really hard for me to understand and deal with. Especially when they show up places when we are out and given my insecurities about their looks and style. I'm very torn. I love being with him and we have an amazing time together but we can't have a future if his past is still in the present!

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