Oh, it's way too easy to ruminate and obsess, to become lost in a maze of seriousness, heaviness and despair. One of my favorite things about my partner is his knack for seeing the goofiness or humor in most situations. And he knows when and where to switch gears, which is a good thing.
Thing is, sometimes we need help getting another perspective. And sometimes the best way to relieve a little tension is to laugh; I always know I'm in a solid place when I can laugh at myself. In that spirit, we're doing a shout-out for National Get Over It Day here at DearSugar.
Ladies, is it time to quit trying to understand or make sense of something? Is it time to just let it go? Figure it out later, much later? If so, today's the day: write about it here, say goodbye, and make room for something else. I'd suggest picking something small but annoying; work up to the big stuff, maybe.