Last night I went to use my boyfriend's phone (we've been dating for 4 1/2 years) to call my Mom and the minute I picked up the phone he began yelling to me not to go through his pictures... which I wasn't! Later that night he left to go home and he forgot his phone... so, I went through the pictures. I knew I shouldn't have, but I was so upset by his yelling, that my curiosity got the best of me. I found a couple of pictures of a girl who was walking into a building. They looked as if she didn't know he was taking them. When he got home I asked him who she was. He told me that he just likes to take random pictures of girls and then he deletes them. He didn't know what the big deal was! My question is should I be worried about what other pictures he has taken...or should I just forget about it? Wondering Wilma
Dear Wondering Wilma
That seems pretty strange. Dig a little bit deeper, I know he'll hate that you are giving him an inquisition, but there's got to be more to it. If there aren't anymore pictures of other girls, then there may be more of this one girl in particular. So yes, I think you have reason to worry. Also, there is a chance that he might have been planting something last night. How are things between you two? If he yelled at you not to look at the pictures and then forgot the phone, he may have left it on purpose. Do you think he wants to break up with you?