My Boyfriend Always Lies

"My Boyfriend Is Always Lying to Me"

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I've been seeing this guy for over a couple of years and I have begun to catch him in a lot of lies. I found out he lied about his age, he said he was 31 when he is really 37. He said his mother lives in PA but come to find out she lives in the same building as he does. He said he doesn't talk to his ex but I found a secret facebook page while using his laptop and he has continued to keep in touch with her, there are also a lot of messages from various women on his page. When I confront him, he acts as if I am crazy and makes up stories as to why he lied about things.

The lies have progressively gotten worse, he tells me he will be out of town for business and yet I see "going to the movies with xx xx" but xx xx live in town so I'm not sure how that is possible. What's worse is that he tells me he is too busy to hang out but then we hang out in his house I find movie stubs laying blatantly on his dresser on the day that he said he was busy. I have also found women things (bobby pins and hair scrunchies on his bedroom floor) and I haven't used bobby pins in years.

He said I'm acting dramatic and a friend of his tells me that he considers us as not seeing each other anymore. When I asked him if it was true he was said yes. I don't know what else to believe but I do know that if he was interested in me he would be honest. He now says he doesn't know what he wants and for me to give him time to think about us and where he sees us. I told him I deserve honesty and I don't feel safe with him lying to me. We haven't spoken since. Was this his way of ending things with me??

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