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Group Therapy: Boyfriend May Get a Job in Another State

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My boyfriend works for Target, and is hoping to get promoted to headquarters up in Minneapolis. We currently live in Indiana, where most of my family is. We live together now. I'm pretty happy where I am now, and have a job I enjoy. However, if he were to move to Minneapolis, I feel I would want to go with him. But is this asking too much? 

We have discussed marriage and neither are particularly ready to jump in. My mom thinks I shouldn't move with him unless he gives me an engagement ring. I don't want to be the reason we get engaged to be because we have to, or it's the "smart thing." The job market for my career isn't the greatest, so I don't know if I'll be able to find work easily.

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