I'm in a sticky situation: I have been dating my current boyfriend long distance for about a year and am planning on moving in with him. I found a job in the city I am in and wish we could try long distance for a little while longer. My boyfriend refuses. I'm hesitant about moving to be with him and not having a job. I have also been thinking about my ex a lot lately. I was with him for four years and things ended very badly and I ended up dating my current boyfriend immediately after. I haven't been able to sleep lately and have tried drinking at night to make me fall asleep easier. I care about my boyfriend, but I don't know if he is the one and don't know if moving is a good idea and part of me wants to contact my ex, just so I can speak to him.