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Lady Violet's Guide to Taking Charge

Feb 24 2014 - 3:00pm

Dame Maggie Smith turned in another solid season as our dearest Dowager Countess Lady Violet on Downton Abbey's season 4! The strong female characters of the PBS show are multifaceted and flawed, and we see a little of ourselves in each of them. But the strongest and most outspoken of the bunch is clearly Lady Violet, Dowager Countess of Grantham, played to perfection by Maggie. And while she's a bit rough around the edges (and her advice is far from politically correct, by today's standards), she says it how it is and doesn't let her age or gender prevent her from getting things done. So as we wait for another season, check out the best quotes from Lady Violet to learn a lesson in brazenness from the matriarch of Downton Abbey.

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"No Englishman would dream of dying in someone else's house . . . especially somebody they didn't even know."

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"One way or another, everyone goes down the aisle with half the story hidden."

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Cora Crawley: "Are we to be friends then?"

Lady Violet: "We are allies, which can be a good deal more effective."

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"Well, give him a date for when Mary's out of mourning. No one wants to kiss a girl in black."

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Mrs. Crawley: "I'll take that as a compliment."

Lady Violet: "Oh, I must have said it wrong."

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Sybil Crawley: "No one ever learned anything from a governess except for French, and how to curtsy."

Lady Violet: "What more do you need?"

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Mary Crawley: "Sybil is entitled to her opinions."

Lady Violet: "No. She isn't until she is married, then her husband will tell her what her opinions are."

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"What's a weekend?"

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"Your quarrel is with my daughter, Rosamund, and not with me. So put that in your pipe and smoke it."

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"We'll just have to take her abroad. In these moments you can normally find an Italian who isn't too picky."

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"I'm a woman, Mary. I can be as contrary as I choose."

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Lady Violet: "Wasn't there a masked ball in Paris when cholera broke out? Half the guests were dead before they left the ballroom."

Robert Crawley: "Thank you, Mama. That's cheered us up no end."

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Cora Crawley: "I hate to go behind Robert's back."

Lady Violet: "That is a scruple no successful wife can afford."

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"Don't be defeatist, dear. It's very middle class."

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"One can't go to pieces at the death of every foreigner. We'd all be in a state of collapse whenever we opened a newspaper."

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"We can't have him assassinated. I suppose."

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"Sometimes I feel as if I were living in an HG Wells novel."

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"Why does every day involve a fight with an American?"

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Cora Crawley: "I might send [Mary] over to visit my aunt. She could get to know New York."

Lady Violet: "Oh, I don't think things are quite that desperate."

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"Robert, people like us are never unhappily married."

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"No one can accuse me of being modern, but even I can see it's no crime to be young."

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"I am a woman of many parts."

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"An aristocrat with no servants is as much use to the county as a glass hammer."

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"If we only had moral thoughts, what would the poor churchmen find to do?"

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"It’s the job of grandmothers to interfere."

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"I wonder your halo doesn't grow heavy. It must be like wearing a tiara 'round the clock."

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