I was seeing a guy for a few months, I wasn't greatly attracted to him but he sort of wooed me and then things just happened from there. I did start liking him more and more, but we had a rocky relationship and the "honeymoon period" lasted about two weeks. We kept trying to make it work, but I always tried so hard as there were things about me he wanted to change (I thought this was strange).
I never really felt like he had a lot of respect for me and a few things happened that made me like him less and less. He then out of the blue told me he loved me and by then I didn't feel the same and I just felt so exhausted. We are not together anymore but he says he is heartbroken.
Here is the very horrible tricky bit, I have found myself really falling for his friend. I knew him before and really like him but I am not the type to make the first move and I just left it. Because I was spending more time with my ex's friend I guess it opened the can of worms, and now I can't get him out of my head, I can't stop looking at him, thinking about him and really really feeling for him. I can't even remember the last time I felt like this, everything looks better, I feel happier and yet it's the worst feeling in the world because it's wrong to pursue it; I would never want to come between two friends. I just don't know how or if I can get over him! I'm not 100 percent sure but I kind of get a feeling he likes me too. I've never been in this sort of situation and honest advice would be appreciated. I'm sooo confused.