I love my wife and think that she's the hottest woman in the world. Unfortunately, she's rather large and insecure about her body. I want her to wear sexy clothes, but she's too self conscious. It drives me crazy that she's so self conscious. I've told her that if I don't see the flaws in her, I don't think that she should either. How can I convince her of this? Despite Her Looks Donny
Dear Despite Her Looks Donny
For crying out loud leave the poor girl alone. It's great that you think so highly of her, but she's uncomfortable in her skin - so wearing a micro mini and heels with fat oozing out of her shoes is not going to help her at all. Be supportive and stop thinking of yourself. If you want to see her in something sexy, make her a candlelight dinner at home or take her to the gym.