Husband's Ex Emails Him

Group Therapy: Should I Delete His Emails From His Ex?

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Hello everyone. My husband was a divorcé when I met him, a year and a half after we got married. Now, we've been married for three months, and he was talking to his son from his ex wife and told him he has another wife now, and he'll be happy to introduce her to him, and everything will be alright . . . two days later, his ex called him and asked if that is true, and he said yes, she cried and told him she still loves him. He said there's no need for this talk and he's happy and the only thing that connect them is the boy.

From that moment on, she never stopped calling and I can open his phone any time to see like 25 missed calls a day. I noticed he put her on the reject list. When we open his email to send emails for clients, her emails and pleadings is like all over the page. He deleted them and chooses the "forever" option even without reading. Yesterday he called me while he was out and asked me to send a price offer for a significant client. I found a message from her asking him to travel to her or she would come or he'll never see his son again if he didn't divorce the "b*tch" he married.

I am so afraid and I love him so much. I abandoned everything to be with him, my brain tells me I should delete every sign from her so he doesn't leave me, but the other part of it tells me I should give him the option and watch him choose me with his will.

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