For the upcoming celebration of my boyfriend's birthday, I asked him to tell me his sexual fantasy. I said that if it were in reason, I would happily oblige and do what he wanted for his big day. He told me that he would absolutely love it if I gave him a striptease. I definitely feel like that's a reasonable request, but I have no idea how to do it. Do you have any ideas how I can pull this off? Generous Girlfriend
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Dear Generous Girlfriend,
What fun for both of you. Just recently, I took a strip tease class at my friend's bachelorette party. The lovely Jagger, taught us exactly what to do to get your man hot and bothered. Here's my How To Striptease Guide:
WHAT TO WEAR:
- Dress up in the color that he likes best on you. It's preferable to wear a flirty skirt or a dress over pants or jeans (these can be much harder to take off in a sexy way.)
- Do your hair and make up to the fullest. Remember that you are performing for him, so you must look the part. When dancing, always pull your hair to one side. This shows off your neck and looks seductive.
- High heels or low boots aren't going to cut it. You'll need a pair of stiletto's baby. This is a hard and fast rule.
SET THE MOOD:
- Put on music that's got a slow tempo so you can take your time getting undressed and dancing. Make sure it's not too slow though, and also make sure that you have some type of continuous music prepared on a CD or ipod mix so the song doesn't end in the middle.
- Dim the lights to set a romantic mood. Light scented candles to add to the ambiance.
- Handcuff your man with his hands behind his back and make sure that he is completely nude. How appropriate that he'll be wearing his birthday suit for his birthday!
- Start by gently taking off any gloves that you are wearing. Stroke your hands one by one and move them into your hair, your chest and down your torso.
- Turn around and lift your skirt or dress. This is a very tantalizing angle. Smack your bottom and smile at him... he'll never see it coming. Next, take off your top in one fell swoop. Practice this move a few times so it's as smooth as possible. You should be wearing a sexy lace bra underneath.
- Lastly, remove your bottoms (also in one motion) but leave those stiletto's on! Throw your clothing around the room, but not at your lover's face. At this point you should just dance for him and let him lick or kiss you. Dance for another five minutes or so and then uncuff him.
These are of course just the basics of one very quick routine. Put your own spice into it and remember to smile at him, always keep eye contact, and have fun! If you want to get a work out in while you are picking up a few more pointers, try ordering Carmen Electra's Aerobic Striptease here. Get your sexy on!